I'm not usually a jealous person but for some reason i am really stressing about this. I'm not even sure there will be strippers involved but because i am feeling fat and ugly and my partner doesn't seem to be showing me much attention anymore i just feel really uncomfortable about him going. I'm not sure what to do about it. I am also worried about fighting with him when he gets home. We tend to argue whenever he has been out and comes home late and really drunk. What should i do?
2007-03-14 11:27:42 · 11 answers · asked by aussie_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually the way your acting is normal. Remember you have hormones racing threw you. Now there are a few things to address. First having a guys night out or a bachelor party is fine once in a while. I mean you have your girls night out right? If his drinking is/has been a problem talk to him about it. There is AA you know however if his drinking is not that bad let him pass out and then talk to him in the morning. Finally everyone knows pregnant women are beautiful your not fat and ugly. If hes not "paying attention" well he is coming home to you after the night is over right? Put something really sexy on when he gets in. You will probably have a very nice night. Remember just relax and dont get jealous hes with you for a reason.
2007-03-14 11:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by ski025025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to see nobody has answered your question. I was leaving a question myself and afterwards was looking thru some and yours caught my eye. I feel the same as you. I worry about bachelor parties in the future. My boyfriend and I might be engaged soon, he has hinted and I dont know if I can deal with strippers etc.
I dont know why a man would want another woman. I dont understand the whole concept. If he hasnt been single the whole time why would he need this one night?
If he loves you and you tell him how you feel I am sure he wont consider this. Good luck and god bless.
2007-03-14 11:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Sweetie..If he is not wanting to be around now how is he gonna cope when the baby arrives. If he's getting drunk all the time then that shows you where is priorities are. But if you really don't want him to go to this party tell him..And if he still goes.. you wait a few hours and then call him with a FALSE LABOR!!!!
That'll get his butt to you for sure..If it doesn't then you need to leave him before that baby gets there and you both get hurt.
Best of luck to you with him and the baby.
2007-03-14 11:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by allforit420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're jealous because of hormones. you're not fat and ugly he just isn't showing attention because it's hard to get around a belly 8 months pregnant. as to the bachelor party, there are always strippers. just pretend to be asleep when he comes home and there'll be no arguing. as to him going or not, just pretend to go into premature labor. that should do the trick.
2007-03-14 11:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You asked, so I'm going to tell it like it is. LOL! Why would he be doing this to you? Anytime, but especially now? Why is he even going out and getting drunk-- you have a kid on the way! This could get ugly and even uglier as time goes on. He needs to grow up now or you will have two kids to take care of. :(
2007-03-14 11:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by misteri 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the bachelor party is a bit ridiculous...given the circumstances.... he should be more concerned with being with you...expecially since you are so close to having the baby ..... and I know his friends probably arranged the party...he doesn't have to accept... bachelor parties are for people getting married yes, but when they have been playing house...it's just another excuse to party.... and his friends could get him in trouble too... I would ask him not to go...and to tell his friends to forget it... time to get ready to be a dad...not a bachelor.
2007-03-14 11:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to compromise with him. Tell him that if he goes, he can't drink.
But really, he should be home with you. Its not completely your fault that you're pregnant and he's not. He should understand this. You can't go to a strip club while 8 months pregnant, he should stay home
2007-03-14 11:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give him oral pleasue every day two times a day, untill the day before. if he says he,s still goin then get the K Y put sand in it and give him a hand job with both hands until he respects your wish or untl his penis looks like a chewed up hotdog
2007-03-14 11:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by aron d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first .. if you trust the guy let him go.. 2nd... if he goes out and gets drunk... he can stay at a friends house that night.... 3rd.. if you think he is gonna cheat, have a spy in the midst.... 4th... if he does... go get child support and kick his ass out...:-)
2007-03-14 11:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by evilwhalen2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋