well evry1 calls me fat. and im not! and they never let me fit in at all. its like they want to get ride of me.
2007-03-14 11:23:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look dear dont let them to leave u buut u must urself leave those crazy frens who do not wana u be fit,,,,have confidence in u n u will surely get desired frens who values u.......
2007-03-14 11:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by ankit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me I felt like I had the same problem when all my friends were going out with someone and I wasn't, i havn't been for a really long time too.
Similar to yours. But honestly, no ones out to make your life a living he11. If they are then they need lives! Trust me I have some pretty mean girls in my class, oh my! but keep going.
What they want to see is your reaction to it. The way to get back at them is to smile. Smile at them! They go crazy, they have no idea what's going on. It looks like reality is flipped!
Belive me! This happened to my good friend! And friends will come along, you may not find your best friend unti college! or even after!
My advice: keep going, dont let them get to you
2007-03-14 18:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are over the age of 12, find a place to do volunteer work. Ask your family to help you with transportation. Doing good things for others will make you happy, it will give you confidence, AND you will make friends with others who are also trying to make the world a better place. The people who call you fat and say bad things are not your friends, and you don't need friends like them! Ignore them.
2007-03-14 18:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what everyone thinks of you!!! God made you the way you are for a reason and you are beautiful to Him!! Don't worry about fitting in and if people don't like you for who you are then you need to change the people you are trying to befriend. Love yourself first then others will see that and want to be your friend!!
2007-03-14 18:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by nainai_797 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them, I bet you'll get a new freind, If u say u really don't care, (actually don't say that, say like...w/ever)Then they will walk away, trust me, My friend calls me fat and I say whatever and listen to this, once I walk away, my other freinds go up to him and yell at him for calling me fat and say that Im as skinny as a stick, (it's okay with me), And you feel so much better
2007-03-14 18:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are jealous of you? so if they call you names then they arn't worth being around,find some mates who care!better people are always hard to find but when you do u will b so much happier,good luck!
2007-03-14 18:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know who you are and ignore them. That's all you can do. Find people who appreciate you for who you are. Find real friends.
2007-03-14 18:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to them....trust me kids are like that onething you know that person likes you but his shy to tell u so what his doing his just teasing you..to get ur attention
2007-03-14 18:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let it get to you. it ain't your fault they're jackasses. just be who you are, and don't try to fit in. fitting in is no fun and makes you a boring person.
2007-03-14 18:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not fat, then get up off your *** and start swinging on some people
2007-03-14 18:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by aron d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋