ok . heres the deal. my mom knows about this guy im seeing thats 21. i think hes great! and he and i both know we cant have sex till im 18. how can we compensate for that time? honestly this is my serious dilema.
2007-03-14 11:22:44 · 14 answers · asked by Taylor R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well also ...he doesnt want to have sex with me yet. hes honest about that. but he thinks im gorgeous and wants to be with me. what do i do?
2007-03-14 11:34:43 · update #1
anything sexual is illegal why don't you guys do other activities anything that has to do with exercise, just tire your self out then sex won't even be an option =)
2007-03-14 11:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion ive had sex with a 22 yr old and we still do sometimes and we havent got caught cause i dont go braggin about it to my friends so if you want to have sex with him just tell him that yall wont get caught if you dont tell anybody and if someone did find out its not like theyre gonna go call the cops on you or somethin but just keep between the two of you until you turn 18 and you should be fine
2007-03-14 18:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have phone sex...lol...jk...there're many things you can do not involving sex. You both know how you can supplement sex in the meanwhile. Making out is enough although it'll be really difficult not to have sex when making out. It's tough girl. Just hold on. On the other, hand, no one has to find out ;)
2007-03-14 18:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Vampirin_1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy's a bum. I'm sure you're hot and smart and mature, but why the hell would a 21 year old want to date a 17 year old? You gotta ask yourself what 18,19,20, and 21 year old girls DON'T like about this guy and why he's willing to dip into the underage pool...
2007-03-14 18:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by TooMuch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth the age diffrence isn't bad. its the sex part. i'm a single mother of 2 girls. i was 19 when i got pregnant. just make sure you use protection. thats if he's the right guy you want to be with
2007-03-14 18:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by evilwhalen2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times goes quickly.... but turning 18 shouldn't be the goal for having sex.... committment and marriage should be...
However...in the meantime.... be creative. read, take up activities that are new... keep busy apart or together.... the time will go by quickly.
2007-03-14 18:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time flies fast..why can't you work on your friendship first while you are waiting...if its truely love...sex fades after years...you will have to rely on your companionship so make sure that part of your relationship is solid with quality time while your waiting.
2007-03-14 18:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone that is your age. You shouldn't really mess wit him.I'm not trying keep you from you happiness. If you really care for him go ahead,but think about it before you do it. It could make you happy or it could mess up your life.
2007-03-14 18:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Blossom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the state in which you reside, you may
be able to have sex now...
I wouldn't worry about it anyway...
Just don't tell anyone...
2007-03-14 18:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being young! If I was young again, I would do things completely different.
2007-03-14 18:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by mcpark2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋