Theres this girl that i know that goes to school with me and the guy i like,(we are technically dating, but hes to dumb to realize he is asking me out..pointless i know but im just throwing that out there) But anyway She has a "boyfriend" but she cant "go back out with him" just yet...but they are All over each other everytime i see them, but shes a really big flirt and i think its invoulentary for her cause she acts like that all the time, even around girls...but shes been flirting w/ my man and i cant stand her anymore..What should i do?
2007-03-14 11:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being so jealous, if the guy likes you enough you have nothing to worry about
I assuming high school? Your to young to be tied to one person anyway
2007-03-14 11:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by ink360 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend is not aware of the fact that he is hurting you by encouraging her flirting then you either need a new boyfriend or need to educate this one. a quick and dirty way to do the later is to be all over someone who he either considers a friend or someone he detests for about 5 min thin take him somewhere private and ask him how he liked it! If he says he did not then tell him to cool it with this girl. If that does not word then the new boyfriend is you only option cause the one you have will have proved unworthy of you.
2007-03-14 18:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get a new boyfriend anyway!!
Are you even old enough to be talkin about "my man". Girl if he is not working and supporting himself without his momma - then he has a long way to go before he is a man.
2007-03-14 18:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by nainai_797 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would not make a fool out of myself. And how you do that is get rid of them both. It may hurt in the begining but trust me women are sneaky and they always have a knife hidding behind they're back. All men want is to get laid. Woman just want to play games and mess with your head.
2007-03-14 18:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by adorible88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do without looking like a b****. Just relax and be yourself. Don't drive him away with jealousy, and if he does choose the other girl over you, he's not good boyfriend material anyway. Good luck, hon.
2007-03-14 18:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kristi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and straighten her out regarding what is OK and what is not OK when it comes to interacting with your man. Tell her that if she crosses the line you will make every one of her bad hair days seem like paradise.
2007-03-14 18:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you need to have a define the relationship talk with your dude.
2007-03-14 18:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Coyote81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to point out your not jellous. when she is flirting with him, join the converation/flirting and make sure she knows he's taken.
2007-03-14 18:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys don't start most relationships
communaction is the key
if you don't want to lose both
speak to them,expecially the boy
and be very clear as to your feelings
2007-03-14 18:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick her *** and tell her to stay the hell away from your boyfriend. and make sure he knows you two are going out, and she knows it too, because otherwise it won't work out. tell him you don't appreciate him dating you and being all over her...if he don't like it, he ain't worth it anyways.
2007-03-14 18:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋