I was just wondrin do i really love my teacher cos he's 27 n im 14?

Question

cos he's'll always on my mind and that kinda stuff like getting really nervous round him

Answer 1

no you dont.

Answer 2

There is a massive difference in being obsessed and being in love. Thinking of someone like that is a normal part of growing up. However, be wise and do not reveal your "crush" to your teacher or your friends. For goodness sake do something else to occupy your mind you will get over this much faster if you occupy your mind. It's called growing up! Good luck sweetie we all went through it and survived you can too!

However, if this teacher has made advances toward you and tried to make you feel that the interest is mutual report this to a responsible adult right away.

Answer 3

Most of the other answers have summed up most of what I was thinking.
It can't be love because you don't REALLY know him.
You don't know much about his life outside the classroom - he may have some disgusting habits, be a member of a religious cult, anything.
In your mind, you have a fantasy of what you would like this teacher to be; you have a fantasy of your ideal man, and it just so happens that you've chosen this teacher to be the persona of this fantasy. You're in love with a man who is just a dream.
It's all part of growing up, you're preparing yourself for the day you meet a nice guy who shares your ideals, dreams and interests. Then you'll fall in love for real. Be patient!

Answer 4

I know how annoying it is to hear this because I bet you hear it all the time - but you do not know what love is at 14! Trust me, I thought I knew but laugh when I think of all the silly things I did, thinking I was in love. Although you sound like you do have a crush on this guy and it is big. Just enjoy looking at him and try not to make a fool of yourself! You will look back on this with a smile one day! Just revel in the crush, as long as you don't put yourself out there and tell him how you feel, its harmless! x

Answer 5

I'm sure what your feeling feels like love to you honey, I had a crush on my Maths teacher when I was 15, he was almost 60!

Looking back [with experienced eyes] I know what it was now, just an infatuation, I liked the power he had and the fact that he was cute [even for an old guy].

I'm sure one day real soon, you meet a nice boy and find out for yourself just how sweet real love can be.

And there's nothing wrong from fancing anyone!

Take care x

Answer 6

I would venture a guess and propose that you may be infatuated with your teacher. He is showing an interest in you (perhaps the first time another adult has done this) and you are reacting to the attention.

Recognize your interest in your teacher as merely a positive reaction to his attention, nothing more. If you are looking for emotional love, begin with someone in age that approximates your own.

Answer 7

I don't want to be patronising, but it probably a crush. I had a crush on my teacher, he was the first thing i thought about every morning and the last thing at night. I thought i would feel like it forever but it does pass honestly!!

Answer 8

We've all been there - that's part of going to school. I always fancied a lot of my teachers. I'm 30 and still think of Mr Black the PE teacher, lol.

Answer 9

It's just a crush. I was your age when I had a crush on my English teacher (he was 23) but I knew that it's not meant to be because he was much older.

Answer 10

Lint-what the hell are you doing on your computer this time of night at your age?
Do your study work to what you what, not wasting your time-like most of us lot---- older people (ages between 22-40-i think)sitting here, your not in LOVE you just haven't sorted out what you want at your age YET...

Answer 11

I disagree with the others. You may really love him or at least the him that you know. But even if what you feel is really powerful, it is not workable. Look him up again in ten years.