one of my best friends is really really pretty(im not gonna say hot cuz that sounds lezbo) and ALL the guys r like in love with her and i hang out with her alot and she has a bf but she still flirts with other guys and she kinda brags about it and me and my other best friend(whos her best friend 2) r gettin really annoyed and we want bf's so how do we get the guys 2 pay attetion 2 us and not her so much?
2007-03-14 10:57:15 · 16 answers · asked by SarahBear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
srry i meant attention at the end not attetion
2007-03-14 11:00:26 · update #1
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM with my best freind!!! rite down to every word it's the same situation! The first thing I did was tell her how much it bugs me that she still brags about all the guys hanging all over her...even though she has a boy friend... I told her it really wasnt fair to her boyfriend that she was a big flirt around other guys... then I told her how I felt ABOUT EVERY THING! after I told her she totally understood and has mellowed out since then and not brag about "the hot guy sitting next to her in class blah blah blah :P" but you also have to think that she is your best friend and she probably dosn't mean to rub it in your face she just wants to tell the news to her 2 greatest bf's. (so be nice when you tell her how you feel...i know I did it the wrong way...*oops*) but also if you want to get guys to notice you then get out of your bestfriends shadow!!! for real BEST ADVICE! shes probably a preety blonde...or big boobs...or legs up to, well forever...pr she just might be a really good flirt. but it sounds like your a really nice person to so if you want to get guys to notice you then kind of stray away from the bf for a few minutes in order to get that guy to notice YOU! and not you hiding behing the always noticed bf. and maybe do or join something that is your OWN thing and get to know other people that she dosn't it will make you fell better knowing that you have those guy friends that she dosn't talk to. And of course we cant forget always look gourgous have a good attitude and smile! it will get you a looong way and make you look more aproachable. dont worry things will get better! :)
2007-03-14 11:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a girl exactly like that...even tho she was engaged, she cheated and flirted ALLLLL the time. If I mentioned that I thought a guy was hot when we went clubbin', she'd be all over him...and I knew she did it to show off. So...long story short...she got caught cheating and her fiance and her broke up...and now I've been with her ex for close to a year now...you should have seen the look on her face when she found out. Looks and short skirts only get you so far...the guys will come around when they see she has nothing upstairs. Good luck!
2007-03-14 11:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys like what they cant get.
Maybe the reason why they like her so much is because they know that she has a boyfriend.
My opinion is don't make yourselves look desperate by acting all out there but act hard to get and don't act like it bothers you that they only talk to her, cuz that's a turn off.
Maybe you should tell your best friend to calm down a little bit because if makes you guys feel uncomfortable because you guys don't think its right to be all flirty with other guys when she has a boyfriend.
2007-03-14 11:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by benzsick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i've got been there and performed that, yet surely, stay with him, be completely common. only say, oh no i can not sorry i'm seeing the girls. yet do see the guy then, see the way it is going after 2 weeks and if it nevertheless isn't working then ya gotta do what ya gotta do. Do in spite of will save you chuffed :)
2016-09-30 22:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to joke around and tell her to stop bragging and have her put in a good word for one of you guys
unless she's a frenemy then this can go very Mean Girls and end up badly
and by badly I mean someone will get hit by a bus
2007-03-14 11:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that even if you are with your friend(the one with bf) the right guy will find you because of u. What better proof would you want? He choosing you over HER!!
Good Luck!
2007-03-14 11:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her out and go hang out together with the other girl every once in a while.....maybe yall 2 can meet someone when the big flirt isn't around
2007-03-14 11:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lil'MissThang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you hate the way they shut down Yahoo chat? It was ideal for this sort of small talk. Yahoo Answers isn't really meant for that.
Have a nice day! :)
2007-03-14 11:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she's dating someone thats easy. Ask the boys to hang out with you and your friend when she's on a date with her boyfriend.
2007-03-14 11:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with ur other friend and then go to a party and meet some1 there so that a guy can notice u more.
2007-03-14 11:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by gina_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋