i need help!?

Question

I'm only 14 and have a huge problem. i have e Boyfriend and there are 9 other guys that like me. im scared that they will hurt my boyfriend if i don't brake up with him. they have already tried to hurt him and broke his arm. please someone help!!!

Answer 1

You should allow your boyfriend to make the choice as to whether or not he wants to stay with you. In the mean time let the 9 other guys know that you are not interested in them. If you give them the message that you are not interested in them then they will leave the both of you alone.

You may be flirting with them or leading them on into thinking that you like them. I know I would never attack the boyfriend of a girl who did not like me. However, if you cannot decide that you only want the one man then you need to break up with him.

I would suggest bringing this up to a counselor or principal if the boys do not stop harrassing and you have told them to stop.

Answer 2

Well at age 14 it would certainly be acceptable to do things with him that are out in public so he doesn't get hurt again by these idiots. If these other 9 guys are serious, you might just as well go to each one of them and tell them you are only 14 and heaven only knows who you will like in another year or 2 years or even 3. If they are trying to win your heart, breaking some guy's arm certainly isn't going to do it!!!

Answer 3

Tell the nine of them that they need to be men and stop ganging up on someone that you have every right to choose to be with. Let your parents know about this, your guidance counselor, the police if necessary.

Personally, I find it disgusting that nine people have to gang up on one kid, and if they broke his arm, that is assault and at least ONE of them needs to be behind bars. Most of these types are weak, cowards that tend to be brave in a gang mentality, but pitted man vs. man they shrivel. Let them be introduced to the criminal justice system, see how tough they really are.

Answer 4

Your way to young to have a boyfriend. I agree with liking the snow get off the internet where there's a ton of sexual predators. Talk to your parents and go finish your homework.

Answer 5

You poor thing. Really you need to tell your parents. And stay away from all boys at least until your 18 ... you don't want to be bringing babies home do you? These guys sound like there going to rape you not like you. And guys like this generally go for real wh-res and tramps so be careful.

Answer 6

To be honest you should contact authorities and get them expelled or something. They have no right to do that. I'd love to kick all of their asses for you haha. You seriously need to do something though cause that's really screwed up. If breaking up with him will keep him out of harms way, I would do it, and maybe date him secretly. As for those other 9 guys, tell them to back the hell up and that you're not interested in them.

Answer 7

There is nothing that you can do and as far as the other boyss hurting him, the two of you need to take that to a whole other level. Granted I would want to be called a rat but, if they are physically hurting him, you need to take it to a higher level.

Answer 8

OK first of all your only 14 its not like your gonna marry this kid that your with. Especially if other guys are trying to hurt him it isn't worth being with him. To be honest if you really do like him they say, if you really love someone let them go.

Maybe in the future if you guys get together again you know its for real.

Answer 9

Kid go tell your parents. Your 14 your right you do need help and I really hope you get it.

Answer 10

wow that's really bad. I would suggest telling someone about it. Like your parents, school counselors, teachers, or just anyone who you think could help you & your boyfriend.

Good luck!