Ladies: Does your boyfriend call you every day?

Question

And how long have you and him been dating?
Mine hasn't called me in four days and we've been dating for over two months.

Answer 1

I think people are overreacting just a little.
There could be alot of reasons he hasn't called, may be real busy, problems with his phone or maybe he is waiting for you to call him and wondering why you aren't and thinking about it alot like you.
Call him and ask him whats up.
Just because he hasn't been in contact in a few days, the first conclusion that something is wrong in the relationship isn't necessarily the correct one.
Me and my ex bf were going out for 6months and after 3 months we didn't speak every single day like before, it just cooled off and little and it didn't mean anything bad it just meant a slight change in the relationship, it happens all the time.
Dont stress too much about it, it'll just make you paranoid.

Answer 2

My fiance calls me every day, just as he did when we were dating. This occured both during the local and long distance parts of our relationship. (The only exception was when I left the country for two weeks and he had no way to get ahold of me.) We have been together for nearly 3 years.

My ex, however, would go days without calling me. We dated for 4 months. And he turned out be a real jackass in the end--neglectful, emotionally abusive. He stood me up all the time!

Call your boyfriend. See if there is a reason he hasn't called you. (Don't be needy, just say you haven't heard from him in several days and were wondering if everything was okay.) If he "just didn't feel like it," then I would consider breaking it off. If he was busy, had family stuff, had plans with friends...then don't break it off, but tell him that you would like to hear from him a little more often. Maybe not every day (because that will probably scare him away), but every other day or so would be nice.

Answer 3

Yes my boyfriend calls me everyday and HE'S IN THE NAVY!!! We've been dating for 3 years now and before he joined the navy he called me 3 or 4 times a day especially in the first 4 months of our relationship.

This doesn't look like a good sign for you.

Answer 4

I personally do not like the everyday phone thing and I do not like to be called every day all day. Too needy if you ask me....I guess I am not really a phone person and if your boyfriend is the same, then there ya go! Is it that he hasn't returned a call? If so, then that is a bit different. Not returning a phone call is just plain rude especially if it breaks a pattern of daily phone calls. If you've left messages already let it go! If you haven't called at all, then call. He could be thinking the same thing as you.

Answer 5

My boyfriend calls me everyday @ least 3 times a day.. We've been dating for 4 months.. If I was u I wuld call it quits with him and fine u a new man who treats you right.he's not respecting you and ya'lls relationship by not calling you.. Have u tried calling him? call him and see if that works? mayb he is waiting on u 2 call him 2 see if you'r gon do ur part n the relationship 2..

Answer 6

Thats kinda a bad sign. When I dated yes mine would call me or atleast text me every day. Now that Im married my husband calls me 2 times a day to see how things are going at home and to tell me he loves me. Call your man up ask him whats going on and if he aint in jail , dead or dyin ask what the deal is

Answer 7

mine used to call every day...and we had been dateing for almost 3 months....but he did live over 3 hours away so calling was the only way we talked

Answer 8

Yes. A couple times a day. We've been dating for a year and a half.

Answer 9

Apparently yes he does...it doesn't how long the conversation are.... the fact is that he thought of you and he put in the effort into calling to and remind you that he miss or love you. Calling you is a sign that shows he cares. I have been dating for one year.

Answer 10

hmmm... it depends. i personally believe that if a guy is thinking of you, he will call you. however, some of my male friends have told me that some guys are just "not phone people..."

i don't know, though, that's hard for me to buy (but like i said, that's just me, and we women all have different opinions). i've been dating my boyfriend for a year now, and he does call everyday. in fact, he is really profusely apologetic on those rare days that neither of us gets a chance to get to the phone... however, we're in a long-distance relationship, so who knows? if we lived near each other, we might not depend on the phone so much.

but anyway, every relationship is different. not everyone needs to hear from their significant other on a daily basis. if your current boyfriend's phoning habits bother you, try letting him know how important it is to you that you guys talk every day (or however often you'd prefer). i'm thinking that if he's really into you, he'll understand and try to keep up.