I dated this guy for 6 weeks and he invited me to mammoth with his friends, he never really express his feeling, so after the trip I asked how he feels about me and his answer was "you are great and fun but my feeling can't go beyond friendship" I was shocked and didn't know what to say. I was really cool about it and told him "well, feeling is feeling, if you dont' have it than you don't, no need to explain" but is killing me inside because I am very attractive to him and his personality. I miss him so much, eventhough it's only 6 weeks but I feel like I can't never be with anyone again. Not sure what I did wrong either...
2007-03-14 10:50:38 · 8 answers · asked by VZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best way to get over it? Move on, Tya. He's not the right one for you. You deserve better.
2007-03-14 10:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Allen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably the type of guy who's afraid of commitment. But if you really like this guy don't give up that easily....atleast keep it as friends, give it some time, and maybe somewhere down the road he realizes he likes you....by the way love isn't something you feel after a couple of weeks....try figuring out why his feelings can't go beyond friendship, perhaps there's a reason why he feels that way....try understanding his reasons first before you decide to give up
2007-03-14 17:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to play the field
and it sound like he has already mowed the lawn and planted grass seeds all over yours
so
now he is ready for the next conquest
move on!
Summer is near.................New prospect for romance when the flowers bloom in the spring.......dew drenched grass blades...........gladiolas winds tickle in the breeze and all that sweet shiat!!!!
oh and for the fut..........if you get invited on a trip early on in courtship and you would like it to go beyond something casual..............he pays all the expenses and you don't put out
I know sounds raw but that is how you gotta do dudes. No way around it
2007-03-14 17:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by redseagoddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got off easy because it sounds as if he was a very cold person.You can't always get what you want ,but you can get what you need.A person that makes you feel good about
yourself.Nurtures you and treats you like a princess.You cared more for him then he cared for you.That's a bad set up.
Take it slow and realize it wasn't anything you did it's his problem to relate to people.
2007-03-14 17:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can get over it, it isnt like the relationship lasted for 6 months or anything im sure u havent even developed strong feelingsyet not saying u havent developed any they are probably juss not strong
2007-03-14 18:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he was honest. He could have lied and led you on. Find someone else and forget about it.
2007-03-14 17:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that is rele bad.. but all you have to do is do someting to get that dumb boy off your mind... they are all STUPID/MEAN!!!!
2007-03-14 17:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a Looser .Get over him .
2007-03-14 17:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋