I have been with my bf for about 2 months now, im 20, he's 24. I fell really hard for him, really quick. I have been in love b4 (i was in a 3yr relationship) but i have never felt like this so quickly! My question is, how can i tell if his feelings are mutual? He always tells me he really cares about me and he has 'really strong feelings'. I dont know if he's just waiting for me to say it first or if he's scared to say it. How do I know????
2007-03-14 10:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself how he treats you. you need to give it more time . If after 6 months to a year you feel the same way then consider it love. Let him say it first. Dont let him have his cake and eat it too. Otherwise he may just be using you
2007-03-14 10:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big test for you will be when the infatuation part of the relationship wears off, that usually takes about 6mths. He obviously isn't feeling quite the same as you and is taking the relationship a bit more slowly, but that doesn't mean he doesn't have strong feelings for you. The way to tell is by his actions, alot of guys have trouble with the 'love' word,depending what has gone on in their lives as they were growing up. Try to take things more slowly, and see what you can learn about "love languages" they Will help you show love in a way that he can feel it, and then he in turn can learn what is your main way of receiving it:) All the best.
2007-03-14 18:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by delwyn7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not think that there is an easy answer for your question. If i were you i would continue with the relationship and let time solve the answers. Then if time is not helping i would tell him my feeling and hope for the best.
Sorry i could not give you a better answer. Best of luck!
2007-03-14 17:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey lil girly...whats the rush? once someone says that they love you, are you not supposed to be hurt by them or something, do you win some sort of prize...do yourself a favor and just hold off on the whole concept of the "LOVE" and just focus on having fun and building a long lasting relationship, besides at your age, feelings rush in like water bursting out of a damn...just go about dating and loving, and start thinking about the whole love thing once your 7 months into it..ok
2007-03-14 17:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he already has said to you that he has "really strong feelings" so that says abit about his feelings towards you. If you want him go and get him. good luck
2007-03-14 17:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by wana help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl wheres only one way,ask him or tell him how u feel..its better now than later..gl
2007-03-14 17:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him...
2007-03-14 17:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋