Im 18 and my bf is 25, im planning on him being my first and want any advice on how to make it enjoyable for him aswell as me, he tells me not to worry about it but im nervous because he has had alot more experience than i have and im worried i wont be able to please him. He tells me all the time it wont hurt but i think it will, infact im almost positive it will and im ok with that but im not sure he is, he said he would feel real bad if it did because it would be like he is hurting me, but i told him not to worry because it cant be helped and he is not doing it intentionally. Im just looking for any first time advice really apart from the usual, be relaxed, use protection, dont rush it, be gentle and slow etc. Thanks =)
2007-03-14 10:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by Chyme 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw i am sure this is something i want to do and i am ready emotionally, i love my bf and i know he loves me, it goes without saying. If i wasn't 110% sure this is what i wanted, i wouldn't even be considering it, never mind asking advice on how to make it better. I know girls my age have a reputation of giving it to whatever guy claims to love them then leave them and be immature about the whole thing, but don't tar us all with the same brush, that in itself it pretty immature.
2007-03-14 11:12:03 · update #1
Just let nature take it's course. It comes naturally. U'll love it. have fun!!
2007-03-14 10:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by laceper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are you thinking? Your boyfriend? Has he asked you to marry him? For goodness sakes, girl, you are giving up something that can never be returned to you -- and for what? An older man who has so little respect for you that he won't do the honorable thing and marry you first? What in the world are you thinking?
2007-03-14 17:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should rush into strait sex until you are sure of what you find pleasing about the relationship'..
but if you must please ,make sure you are pleasured before the big dive.Most men don't last long enough the first time.
2007-03-14 18:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he is so much more experience then listen to him do what he tells you to do... OR just lay there and let him do all the work...
2007-03-14 17:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Yates M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew your 18. he's 25. dont do it you're gonna regret it/ especally when you get pregnant.then you'll get scared so you'll get an abortion then you'll live your life with regret telling yourself..i killed someone. but good luck anyway!!!
2007-03-14 17:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Beckyy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋