My parents bought a Boston Terrier. How do I talk them out of having him?

Question

I hate Boston Terriers! I wish we never got one! Please, how do I talk my parents out of having one!?

Answer 1

Just say, “Mom, dad, I’m a selfish son who cares more about myself than I care about you or the well-being of a dog. Get rid of him now!”

You might want to add in a pouty face or stamp your foot to seal the deal.

Seriously, if they already have the dog, then they’ve probably given the breed some thought and decided it was the best for them. When you get your own dog, you can have whichever breed you want, but right now this is their money, their house, and their decision. Not only that, but it isn’t fair to jerk the dog around like that. It's better for everyone (including you) if you just get over it.

Answer 2

Grr. Have you spent time with any Bostons? If you haven't, what gives you the basis to say you hate the entire breed?

Second: It's your parents choice. It's not all about you and what you want. They're the ones buying the dog, they're the ones who will be finacially caring for the dog. They will be the ones to care for said dog.

Third: If they already bought the dog, what do you purpose they do? Give it back to the breeder? Give it to a shelter where it's likely to be put down?

Just stop being selfish. This is what they want, this is what has already come to pass. Depending on your age, you might be moving out in a few years anyway!

It's their home, their money, their love. They have the right to bring in what breed of dog they want to.

Grit your teeth, be nice, and drop the selfish kid act. It's not the end of the world, you will not die from living with a dog breed you 'hate'.

I guess what I'm really trying to say, in laymen's terms: Get over it.

Answer 3

First of all Why do you dislike boston terriers? I don't like small dogs either, however my very first dog was a boston terrier that I bought my mother for mothers day. She loves them. I quickly realised that Bostons are a big dog just in a small dog body. My mothers boston took down a pit bull because it got to close to my mother. She is intelligent, loveing, loyal, obediant, doesnt bark unless she has to, is not a digger, is easy to bathe, loves swimming, loves kids and people in general, and if anyone messes with her family she means buisness.
Besides they are one of the first original dog breeds that are American made.
My other advise to you...you must be an only child because you sound jealous that your parents got something else that requires there love and attention... The advise bond with it, you are going to find yourself a sibling in that dog.

Answer 4

Why do you hate this dog? Do you simply not like the breed? Do you not like this particular dog? Or do you not like them having any dog or pet?

Many times children/teens ask what they can do to convince their parents to get a dog. And the basic response is that they can ask and determine if there are ways that they can prove they are responsible, but otherwise, it's the parents' home and their rules. Getting a dog when the parents don't want one is a BAD thing because the parents become resentful and often "get rid" of the dog (as if it's something disposable - stupid people).

In your case, it's the reverse, but the same rules apply. They fell in love with this dog and it's their house. If you have serious issues, you can calmly present them to your parents, but be fully prepared for them to say "thank you for your comments, but the dog is staying".

In that case, my advice is to try to bond with the dog. Even if this breed isn't for you, you'll find that all dogs really are similar. They all love attention, food, being scratched and hugged, going for walks, etc. If you take some time to bond with the dog, what may turn out to be your least favorite breed may become one of your favorites. If nothing else, at least you will have learned a bit about this breed and learned more about raising a dog.

But if you simply cannot adjust, then please at least be kind to the animal. Do NOT treat it cruelly just because it's not as "cute" as you'd want. The dog has done nothing wrong - it's like laughing at a person of a particular race And just keep in mind that in time, you will move out (to college or to your own apartment/house) and the issue won't be yours any more.

Good luck!

Answer 5

There are Boston Terriers, and Boston Terriers! We had one growing up, and she was the greatest pet ever! They are so intelligent! We had always had big dogs, and we were not too happy that my older sister picked her, but Corkie was the best! She played frisbee, chased balls, and we even taught her to pull a wagon and walk on her hind legs. She could open doors, climb ladders, bring her food dish, and dig up "hidden treasures" that we buried. She was up for everything we asked her to do. We loved her, so she trusted us, and thats why she did all these things. But her greatest trick was to cry! Whever I got in trouble(many, many times), or was just sad, I would sit on the back porch and cry. Corkie would sit beside me and cry too! Her big eyes would well up with tears, and they would run down her doggie cheeks! We'd sit there and cry together! This always made me feel better, faster than anything else, because she felt my pain! She got older, and slower, but never whined or complained; she was alway there for us, ready to go, until one day I called her, and she didn't respond. She died quietly in her sleep. I still miss her! She was a great dog, and didn't bark very often because we spent a lot of time with her(there were five kids in our family). So my advice is to take the time to get to know the dog, make him YOUR best friend, and you will have a great companion. I speak from experience!
Good Luck.

Answer 6

Honestly I wouldnt try to find the cheapest puppy. If they are cheap usually its not a good thing. Visit the home before you buy the puppy. If the person wants to show the dog at a park or somewhere other then their home there is something wrong so dont go for it. I would also get all the vet info and a health garentee. Basically it means that if there is something found wrong with that puppy you can take it back and get another. Get it in writing too. Basically its not for use but if the person offers one of those they are confident that nothing is wrong with the puppy and that is very good. Good Luck on your search! =]

Answer 7

I'm not trying to sound rude, but that sounds a bit spoiled.

I'm sure their decision wasn't solely based on your personal tastes, but theirs.

Financially they made this decision and since you didn't take part in paying for the outcome, you really don't have much say on this ground.

I think it would be wiser to bring up the fact that you're upset that your parents didn't consider you in their decision to purchase the dog, and that this hurt.

In life as you get older, you will realize that we don't always get the things that we want. Instead of looking at this in a negative light however, try to enjoy the happiness this dog will bring to your entire family (including your parents).

If you still hate Boston Terriers when you get older, then don't get one. Unfortunately, until you're 18 and paying for things on your own, you won't have much say in the financial means of your parents.

Cheer up though! It goes by faster then you think. Just enjoy the time that you have now, since you never really know what's going to happen next in life.

Answer 8

Quit being such a spoiled brat for starters. There is nothing wrong with Boston Terriers. They are an intelligent, friendly and desirable breed of dog. Give the dog a chance and you will grow to love it. When you are grown and have your own house get an elephant if you want one.

Answer 9

Are you jealous of the dog?It getting more attention than you?Grow up.You are not the only one in the house who has wants,needs and feelings.
You will grow up and hopefully move out and support yourself one day.And then you can make the rules and decide what will and won't come to live in your house cause you pay the bills.Until then you're stuck.
Sux sometimes but we don't always get to be the center of attention or run the show.
That poor dog has feelings too you know.It did'nt beg to come live in the same house with you but it's not on the computer asking how it can get away from you because you're hateful and selfish now is it?
Instead it's trying it's best to be a useful member of your family,loving you all unconditionally,and trying to fit in.

Answer 10

Unfortunatley parents have the final say and they already bought him. They arent going to get rid of him. Bostons are a good breed. I bet if you tried getting along with him you will become fast friends. Give it a try cause it sounds like the dog isnt going anywhere.