I met a man two months ago and honestly I fell in love with him at the first sight when I saw him. My instinct told me that he was the one in my life forever..but after I knew that he has wife (he told me immediately after I met him), needless to say I was very disappointed. However, he told me that he was not happy with his family(his wife has two sons of her own), he felt lonely and just their ATM machine. So we kept emailing and met once in a while as friends. I found myself have strong feeling about him, he occupied my whole heart. I was thinking about him most of the time when I was not working, he was my everything. He seemed like me too. I was so happy in those days I felt I was smiling all the time. But one day after we met about one month he gave me a kiss and hug (for the first time we kiss), he wrote me an email says good-bye to me because he felt tension and guilt. Oh..my heart was broken..I don't know why!! I don't know what to do!He left me 12 days ago,I'm still crying..
2007-03-14 10:31:44 · 7 answers · asked by me2006august 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are better off with out him.
Actually you should had walk away, not run away as soon as he mention the "w" word.
What you need to do is go out and be thankful you are not the other woman. (Just in case you haven't read some of the post around here, NO ONE LIKES the other woman).
Been stuck at home feeling sorry for yourself is not going to help you get over him. He is obviously not the one for you, cause he is MARRY.
His happiness and status in his family should not concern you at all. There must be a reason why he still marry to her otherwise he would had walk away from that relationship.
2007-03-14 10:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by hayde_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person obviously does not want to leave that relationship and is just looking to bridge his needs via Internet fantasy forum. This is bad news unless you are looking for the same. Please allow yourself to realize that it was the chase mystery and intrigue that made you feel infatuated with the situation. I am sure that you were right on target, he is probably a really great person, because as a decent human being he realized that the situation was going some place he did not want to go and he did the right thing by ending it before either one of you could get really hurt. Perhaps in your own way you are insecure and unable to seek a meaningful connection. Explore why you felt the way you felt about him despite the obvious limitation in both the medium by which you guys communicated and his ability to give you a substantive relationship. I think you need to meet with people real time and explore other scenarios and options so that you may put this experience into perspective.
2007-03-14 17:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by redseagoddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, listen to urself....just talking about it and moping AINT GONNA HELP. obvisuoly u got involved with a...a....married man so umm hun this was bound to happen, and u actually believed he was gonna just leave his wife and u should not be feeling bad for u but for his wife cuz who knows who he flirting and messing around with now...and u also let it get tooo far, u should have stopped the minute u felt that..and just put it out of ur head..well too late now..so my advice get over it....there is one out there for u and when u meet him then u will forget about all those other dudes
2007-03-14 17:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Katie is head over heels ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't know i'd find you here.... i missed you... i know i felt like i had to let go of you but i was wrong... i'm in love with you... i didn't mean to make you cry... WaAAaaaa... just kidding... i'm sure everyone had to go through that once in their life... it's just the rough part of falling in love... time heals all things... i also suggest "indulgence"... on everything!!!
2007-03-14 17:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,You should just get over it it's just 1 guy in your life!
2007-03-14 17:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry - he is clearly not interested -- get out and do something you like to do -- anything - but try to keep busy -- there will be otyhers -- but they won't be attracted to someone who feels sorry for herself.
2007-03-14 17:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just let it go. There will be others. If it doesnt help then buy more tissues.
2007-03-14 17:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Pat the Bat Burrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋