HELP! Guy won't leave me alone?

Question

A guy at my school likes me but I really hate him. He's very annoying because he constatly pokes me, begs for my screen name , etc. I tried ignoring him. I even yelled at him a few times to shut up and finally, today i just TOLD HIM I DIDN'T LIKE HIM because he kept annoying me.

However, he still bothers me and repeatedly asks me "Why dont you like me? how am i annoying?" over and over again. He does this in front of all my friends and it really humiliates me. He won't give up and stop bothering me unless i go out with him.

To make things worse, I'm in EVERY SINGLE ONE OF HIS CLASSES and my locker is right next to his! What should I do?

By the way, the more i ignore him, the harder he tries to get my attention and the situation gets worse

Answer 1

i say date him...who knows...you might end up liking the guy

Answer 2

i have a similar problem..
1. u could tell him taht u dont like him because he is annoying..
if he wasnt poking you or annoying al the time u two could have a better realtionship really good frineds u know??

2. you can aslo switch your locker. that worked for me...
adn annoying him is best. if he keeps poking you in class adn u pay atention to him he will realize that the harder he tries.. the more attention hell get.. so ignore him adn be consistent. dont ignore him one day and then pay attention to him the next day... he will probably keep doing it..
i know this i sconfusing but i hope it helps.....
o yea this is from some1 in 8th grade oign to ninth in a couple of months.. not from some old lady..lol

Answer 3

This is happening to me at this moment, the exact same thing, and only our lockers are apart. I end up spending all my breaks and lunchtimes in the girls toilets, the only place he can not get to. At first I was annoyed, I had done almost everything, and now I am getting scared of him. You have a few options:
1)report him to school support staff.
2)blackmail him
3)You might have to do this if there is no way out, go out with another boy to get the message through.
4)Find out his house number, and explain to his mother that he is harrasing you and to stop him in someway.
5)Get him beaten up by paying somekid, and then hint very lightly that it was you who got it done.
6)Embarrase him by saying something along the lines of "I would rather lie in a grave next to Saddam Hussain than go out with an obsessive loser like you, so leave me alone" and say it very loudly so everyone can hear and then walk out of the class.
7)SLAP HIM IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY IN THE SCHOOL YARD.

Answer 4

nicely those adult men are likely in contact in you in a unmarried way or yet another and per chance they imagine that your shyness is truly lovable! adult men like it at the same time as a woman is type of shy and would not gown slutty and is truly fantastic. So those adult men likely like you because you're a woman:) i'd evaluate it a praise at the same time as they pay a lot interest to you yet in case you actually don't like it or experience uncomfortable then possibly basically jokingly say "why do you problem me a lot?" do not say it in a recommend way basically youngster round slightly with them.

Answer 5

slap him tell your teacher of the situation
tell him yo dont like just dont bother me
you have to move on in life find yourself
a women get yourself a boy friend
who aint on you like an animal
and is big enough to back him off ya
n then dump him later when he stops
change school he's runin your life
to how you wanna live it belive me
dont sit there jus take action straight away
tell the head teacher tell someone older
who will listen n not jus take it out the other ear

Answer 6

Report him to the school counselor. Tell them that this guy makes you feel extremely uncomfortable and that he doesn't take no for an answer. Tell them that you feel like he might do something to you if you continue to try to ignore him. They should take him in and talk to him and/or his parents. Hopefully this helps. I've had a stalker at school before. It's not cute. This was at college though, and I talked to the campus police.

Answer 7

Tell him that if he doesnt leave you alone, you will get a person of higher athority (teacher, principal, etc.) to intervine. and then if he chalenges it, do exactly that, go to the office and let them know. do not back down on it. they might give you the option to move your locker somewhere else, and be able to keep an eye on the situation, because if it is how you discribed, what he is doing is considerd harrasment, especially since you have told him to stop. if you have witnesses to his behavior (friends or faculty) who have seen him do this even after you told him to stop, bring them with to tell whoever what is going on.

Answer 8

wow. u are in a sucky situation but u have two options.
1. go to the office and report this.
2. confront him out of no where! it will throw him off and just be cool about it. tell him you don't like him and never will. explain why u hate him and why he is annoying then tell him to bug off or u will get him in trouble.

Answer 9

Wow, he sounds like a stalker! Good luck with guys like that. They wont take a hint or listen when you tell them that you dont like them. He is going to have to get interested in someone elce before he will leave you alone. I hate to tell you that but its the truth!

Answer 10

geez give the poor guy a chance...
what girls dont realize is 1/2 the guys theyd nvr give a chance are the best choices and if hes that desperate 2 go out w/ u maybe itll be worth the wait 4 both of u (of course im a natural lover so thats the way i think)

Answer 11

You are going to have to speak to a counselor or an administrator about this. The kid doesn't understand the meaning of 'No" apparently. Get an adult to talk to him.