Some time ago i met a very nice guy. We weren't that much in a contact, but we kinda knew each other. Day by day i started realizing that i am falling in love. My feeling became so strong that refused to be with another guy whom i waited for 2 years, coz he liked me as a friend at first, then went to the USA to study. And finally when he started liking me I told him to leave me. I fell in love so badly that my friends became very worried and finally persuaded me to make the first step, but i was too shy so one of my friends went to him and told him about my feelings. He got really shocked and left without coming up to me ( we are very different people, plus he would never expect the girl to make the first step). The next day he talked to my another friend who made him talk to me and then finally he came. He said like he is too shocked, he said he had a serious stress recently. And he told me he needs time to think. He was still nice to me, and very friendly
2007-03-14 10:17:28 · 12 answers · asked by ALONE_GIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He told my friend he doesn't have a gf at the time. He is just too shy, but i really don't understand him. Coz he could tell my friend that he is just not interested, or that i am just not his type.
2007-03-14 10:40:48 · update #1
I think that it means he needs time to think... he will let you know if he has feelings.Also please check out my questions and answer if u get a chance i have a guy problem as well!!!
2007-03-14 10:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you. If he felt as strongly as you do, which he should and you deserve, he would have gone for it. His initial reaction was to maybe freak out and back away, that's not a good sign. I'd say he just wants to be friends. Congrats on making the first move though, go after what you want!
2007-03-14 17:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so , give him some time . try to avoid seeing him or talking to him , also tell all your friends to do so , Wait him for the next step , if he didn't make it , then forget about him , and one day you well find your love .
2007-03-14 17:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang on to the idea of being with him, detach from the idea. And if he is one day ready, if you are available, then make it happen. Life is too short.
2007-03-14 17:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Klum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means it's time to move on
2007-03-14 17:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT MEANS HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONIP RIGHT NOW OR JUST WITH U.OR MAYBE HE JUST NEEDS A BREAK.GURL U GOTTA MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE
2007-03-14 17:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just doesnt want a relationship right now.
2007-03-14 17:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means move on!
2007-03-14 17:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i say it, it means: "i'm currently working on another girl. try back in a few weeks."
2007-03-14 17:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by jeffrey m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I need time" means I'm not interested in you - but don't want to hurt your feelings.
Move on - it ain't going to happen.
2007-03-14 17:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋