do men really like bbw and if they do why don't they show it more?

Answer 1

Not all men do but some do and some prefer a bigger woman than thin one. My husband for example.
I am a big girl and when I met him I was about 20 pounds lighter than I am now. I have been through 2 surgeries (hence the weight gain as one had me bed ridden for about 2 months before I could walk with crutches).... Even being heavier today than I was when I first met him and he says he wouldn't have me change one bit. He says I'm just as sexy as I was the day I met him AND he says that I'm sexier, and more beautiful than any model out there in the world today.

Those men who like the plus sized ladies will let you know, believe me.... I've had some who have flat out admitted to me they don't find skinny girls attractive at all.... I have had other boyfriends who liked my size as well, though they did try to get me to lose a little weight, but I've always been plus sized and always will be. Sometimes being bigger is better..... from both a male and female standpoint. You don't have to constantly keep your eye out for the newest "fad" diet (my husband says he's happy I'm big cause his brothers girlfriend always watches what she eat cause she's on the Atkins diet... and he hates goin to a restaurant and watching her order a salad and say she's full). My husband is a big man as well and loves that we can go out to a restaurant and (as he puts it) actually eat.

Be proud of being big, don't listen to people who say you need to be a certain size or whatever... just be happy being you. If you want to lose weight, do it for you, nobody else. You can only do it and stick to it if you want to do it for you. If somebody doesn't like you because you're big, F'em! Love yourself whatever size you are, have confidence in yourself and do what makes you happy (doesn't matter if that means playing video games for hours on end or sitting on the couch and eatting a bag of chips while watching a movie....)
JUST BE YOU AND DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANYBODY OTHER THAN YOU.

Answer 2

There is a lot of pressure in our society to conform. The way we dress, the way we talk, the things we choose to spend our time doing, our choices in film and music, and the people who we are attracted to are all open to others saying "ewww, you like that?" with the implicit inference being if you have interests outside the main stream you are weird.

Boys who like bbw don't show it because they are worried what their friends will do or say if they know that they are interested in fat women. They grow out of it eventally or end up alone, wondering why they can't find that perfect woman to validate thier existance.

Men who like bbw are not afraid to show it because they have matured enough to realize that life is too short to be lived only to meet other people's expectations. They also generally have had more relationships and learned that how a person looks is not the most important part of who they are.

Answer 3

what is bbw?

and I know what Jesus likes most-but I found it out searching about life and relationships-I prayed-- "Jesus come into my heart as you said and forgive my sins and be my friend, amen" it helped me in every way and he promised his love and to come in to deliver from sin in Revelation 3:19&20-

big beautiful women--beauty is in the eyes of the beholder-and Jesus gives a beautiful heart to even the worst person when they come to Jesus-some guys I would say less than average-yet most guys that do not have Jesus are just looking for a piece of meat and will make it sound like she is everything to get what they want--

some guys that believe in Jesus prefere big too, and with Jesus she is a keeper and will know how to chose a keeper too.

Answer 4

I love bigger girls, probably because I'm a chubby guy. Email me

Answer 5

They need time to reconsider their decision and weigh all pros and cos if you get my drift.

Answer 6

because society says that thin is in