suicide or not?

Question

i'm feeling very suicidal right now and need someone to talk to.
my family call me fat all the time and i weight 110 pounds and i'm bulimic too ( eating disorders run in my family )
i'm really sick of life and want to end it real bad plz some one help me

Answer 1

You are sad. You know you aren't fat. That's why it hurts you; you seem like a smart girl. You know this disease runs in your family and you have the power that they didn't; you can break this terrible cycle. Your family is severly misled, they believe themselves not good enough; it makes them feel better to put a good person down. Don't let them win this battle. You are strong, healthy (for now) and intelligent. You know right from wrong. You don't need anyone to tell you. And you know that suicide is not the answer. YOU aren't the problem here. Retreat inside yourself and evaluate the behaviors and actions of others. Are they really what you want for yourself???

Answer 2

Suicide is not an answer to solving any problems... not even yours. The best thing to do is to seek God. If have not been into religion in the past, it may not be a bad idea to start.God is the creator of all man kind and he has made a promise to all of us that he will not put anymore on us than we can bear. If you don't feel like anyone cares about you.. think again. There are a lot of people in your life that care about you. Even the people in your family. (They are just not aware of your situation and how upset you are) And most important GOD loves you. People all over the world care about you and your life. No one would want to see you end your life on account of family problems. The best thing to do is tell your family how you feel. If this still doesn't get through to them, try talking with a counsler at school or a friend. No one should go through problems alone. Please go and seek help. Stop hurting yourself by throwing up. You are not fat.. You are a beautiful individual that God has placed on this earth for a reason. Do not cut your life short.

Answer 3

First, you will need to trust me. When one is feeling suicidal, all thought is usually irrational and blurred. You may not believe me, but just give it time. Get some rest. Go on a walk. Play a sport. All of these things release chemicals that help you to think rationally and to feel happier.

Suicide never fixes anything. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU! You are NOT overweight.

See my answer at http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av7cZRj1oJzP_FLZ7hzsQuXsy6IX?qid=20070223175908AALWcoI&show=7#profile-info-348d201276c9686369d7af67d8569c2caa

Trust me, wait. You will not regret waiting, because this afternoon, tomorrow, or next year, you will see that it was a good thing that you are living!

Normal people go to therapy, too. Ask for some help from a therapist, if you need it.

The important thing to do now is to trust me. You will feel differently about this when you are thinking clearly.

There are many great people out there who have gone through what you have.

Anyway, just a joke I like:

It's better to be pissed off then to be pissed on!

And if the World didn't suck, we'd all fall off!

Answer 4

Suicide is not the answer. It never is. Life will improve if you stick it out and work it through.

You know that you're not fat. 110 pounds is not fat on ANYONE. You may be a little underweight, actually, depending on your height.

The one thing I can tell you is that Jesus loves you. He loves you more than you can ever imagine. Life without Him does seem bleak and hopeless, dim and endless. But with Him? Joy unspeakable!

I'll tell you now that I struggled with depression and thoughts of suicide for years. My relationship with Jesus is what has seen me through it all. He is my Everything.

Trust me when I say that life will get better. People can be cruel but you need to know that there are people that love you and care about you. I don't know you personally and I care. Take comfort in that.

Find a counselor or adult to talk to that can help you work your depression through. You can email me if you like. I've made emailing me possible through my profile.

Keep your chin up and remember that Jesus loves you and I care.

Answer 5

If you need someone to talk to here are some numbers you can call for people who can help:
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
1-800-448-3000 (TDD 1-800-448-1833)

You mention that you weight 110 pounds but you don't mention if you are in fact obese, either way it's not really cool for your family to call you fat unless their being sarcastic, and even then they need to make that clear. Just tell them next time someone calls you fat that you'd really rather them not call you that.

Life is a pretty wierd trip, but there's you can always change your path. Focus on something you like to do, there has to be something, next time you feel depressed do that activity, or just think about it, draw yourself doing that activity, write about how you feel doing that, simply imagine yourself doing the activity. That's what I always did.

Suicide or not? Let's go with not.

Hopefully you can find help.

Answer 6

I don't know if you have seen a doctor for some advice or
some help, but you should consider it, and I mean that
in the nicest way. Killing yourself is never an answer. You
shouldn't even be thinking about it. The problems your
having all have solutions. I know it's hard sometimes to'
get that get up and go inside of us and do what we need
to, to make ourselves better, but you can do it.

Your shouldn't be concerned about your weight. As you
get older, you will realize what's really important in life.
Your weight is important to you now, but so many people
struggle with this issue. We don't get the results we want
so we think we never will, but that is not ture. Just give
yourself more credit and relax.

Answer 7

If eating disorders run in your family that's probably why they call you fat, because their perceptions are so distorted. But it sounds like you know 110 is not fat, and that you know it's wrong for them to say those things to you. Please be strong, if you're still living with your family this is only the very first stage of your life. If you can hold on long enough to move out and make your own life for yourself without your family's apparently unhealthy influences, you really might find yourself ALOT happier. It's too early to give up!

If your school has a counsellor you might want to try talking to them about this, it can be hard to feel good about yourself if your family keeps telling you otherwise, so if you talk to someone else about it they might be a good balance, and hopefully be able to remind you what the good things about you are...

Answer 8

Don't pay any attention to your family. they are saying stuff just to be mean and get to you. dont let them do this to you. if you do. you are letting them win at their own sick game. 110 pounds is by NO MEANS fat. sounds like the only thing fat in that house is your familys mouths. Call a suicide hotline. or go to the local emergency room and tell them. they can and will help you. also mention that you have a eating disorder. sounds like something pschological is going on there.but whatever you do DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. that is a permanant solution for a short term problem. if you are in school still or even college talk to a guidance counsilor. If you are involved in church talk to the preacher. HOPE all this helps and remember killing yourself will keep you out of Heaven. God loves you and he don't make any junk. you are beautiful in his eyes. your just having a really tough time right now. things will get better i promise. good luck to you and please dont take your life its not worth it. hugs.

Answer 9

Dont waste your life over something so trivial and pointless.
Really not worth it.
Remember, beauty fades but dumb is forever.
You really want to be remembered as the girl who topped herself over her weight?
You sound young, and having an unsupportive family can be the most isolating feeling in the world, i know believe me.
But it is not worth it, really.
You dont have to live like your family, beleiving their judgements or following the pattern of eating disorders.
You need to find out who YOU are first of all, away from the family unit.
When you do, you will have alot more options in life and alot more clarity and be able to see things such as weight and suicide in the bigger picture.
Go do something to distract yourself now, go running, take a bath, paint your nails, watch a movie, go to sleep, do anything for a few hours to keep yourself busy.
And go see a counsellor if you're not already, i promise you wont regret it

Answer 10

What's your height? Muscle mass? If muscle mass is diminished, then you may appear flabby or have a higher fat-muscle ratio.

Anyway, uh...don't commit suicide because of what your family says all the time. Know yourself. Are you really overweight or out of shape, then go to step 2: fix it. Research the best fitness and diet program (I know what it is for me but am not going to give you what a nutriton or fitness consultant would as it would take too much extra space here and is not that relevant). Some people really don't tell the truth or exaggerate drastically or if they have unrealistic standards then it's a problem.