isolation help?

Question

i've isolated myself from people. and i dont understand why...i've just become anti-social. being alone feels natural to me now... and i could care less about social gatherings/people, and i sometimes even walk away from people. i've taken cymbalta but then i started having side effects: mucus coming out of the inside of my nose into my throat... should i keep taking cymbalta? what should i do?

Answer 1

Aside from the bad side effects of Cymbalta, was it helping your depression? Did you still feel like you wanted to stay isolated? How long have you taken this medication?

All anti-depressants take 2 - 4 weeks to regulate in your system, and those first few weeks are when the side effects generally occur. If they continue after that, then you should tell your doctor that you want to try a different one. Even if there are no side effects, tell your doctor if there's no change in your mental attitude. My husband takes a combination of several of "mood altering" prescriptions. It took quite some time for the doctor to find the meds that worked best for him.

It'll take a while before you start to feel like socializing again. Be patient and try to stay active as much as you can, even if it's just doing stuff around the house. Find an online forum or chat group specifically for depression sufferers. It helps to talk about it. Most importantly, don't give up!

Answer 2

That first guy who answered your question sounds like a complete idiot. I know a lot about psychology and almost everything he said was a lie. One BIG lie. What an idiot! Anyway, I don't know what's causing you to not want to be with other people, but I have the same problem, and nobody ever told me I needed to go to the hospital or anything like that. It can be so many different things (nothing serious). You should go see a psychiatrist and find out what you have. Don't take any pills if the side effects are bad like cymbalta. I am sure there are so many more pills out there.

Answer 3

Cymbalta is an anti-depressant, and you should be monitored while taking this. There are many different types of anti depressants out there to choose from. If this one isn't working for you, and you hate the side effects, check with your doctor for another type.
I also strongly suggest getting therapy. Anti-depressants are not a cure, it only treats symptoms, and this mental illness can stem from many different causes included poor diet, stress, and other factors.
Anti-social behavior is also a side effect of depression, and you need to talk to an actual therapist to find out the cause.

http://www.drugs.com/cymbalta.html

Answer 4

I wouldn't take anything that gives a negative side effect. You should see the doctor that prescribed you that and let him know the effects it is having on you. In the mean time, I will pray for you that God's blessings reign down on your life and you can break away from your isolation. God is always there for you. He will never leave you or forsake you. Proverbs 17:22, “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” (NIV)
If you try, make an effort to smile and be cheerful, you may find yourself unhappy with isolation, and worrying alone. Cast your burdens upon God for He truly cares for you. God Bless you.

Answer 5

Don't trust this PHD guy ! The cymbalta is not working for you ! (It sounds like you have Post Nasal Drip, This is an allergy that I myself have, it can be anything from dust to
citrus fruits or juices in my case) It's very annoying, isn't it !
Go get some allergy tests done.
And also there are many other anti-depressants that work really well ! Don't give up, speak to your doctor about it !
Hugs,
Fran

Answer 6

Hi, sorry to hear youre having so much trouble. I would suggest that you have a deep consultation with your Dr. Are you seing a psychiatrist or is your primary dr. prescribing? I have dealt with this situation a number of times... my children too.My understanding of what youre saying is you feel very uncomfortable about being aroud people in general. This can be a few things and to overcome it you have to grasp it before it overcomes you.Sounds like you could be depressed,have a condition called social anxiety disorder, anxiety itself, or it could be your medication making you feel that way. Every med. has some side effect and unfortunately all the psychological meds are notorious for this.Or possibly there could be something going on in your circle that really you are totally miserable with. It could be all of these factors. I think you should take some time for yourself and write down the things that are bothering you -- and be deeply honest with yourself. That way you see on paper your feelings and can try to distinguish what is in the norm for you. You know yourself better than anyone. Dont let any Dr. feed you crap that doesnt make sense to you.Write your symptoms down and also share those with your doc so he can determine whats going on. Ive learned thru my depression and anxiety the best thing to have in the world is a great dr. who LISTENS and takes the time --no matter what- to get you on your toes. If you have not ever felt like this before it could definately be your med. I do also believe we all need our own space from the outside world...it can be very stressful especially if youre not feeling well. If your taking your space tho and still feel there is something wrong definitely speak to your dr. Therapy is a great idea----we all need to talk with someone. There are alot of self help books and if you have a pc, then even better. All the info about whats going on with you is helpful. The trick of the feelings you have tho is to NOT let yourself get too worried about them. Get on another med, take walks to encourage your mental and physical well being. Do something that your good at or try a different hobbie. Know you are strong and have power to overcome battles...battles wont overcome you unless You let them. Most of all stay busy....keep your mind busy with positive things. Be around positive things and people. I give you my experience over 7 yrs. of dealing with these issues. Take care of yourself. Dont let things get out of hand. I believe we all have the power to conquer and God has given us the tools we work with. Its great you can reach out right now and hear what others have to say. I didnt have that.
Write down your feelings. If you need rest, then rest.Do what your body says to do. Mentally you know the right things to do. Dont let the negative feelings take over your life because they sure can if you let them.
Good Luck and hope I helped somewhere.

Answer 7

Right on friend. I too am a Isolationist. there is nothing wrong with this in my book and you should'nt be taking meds just to fit in to society. I've stood in the middle of Times Sq. NY and felt totally alone, because I chose not to interact with others. but I could be in the middle of the desert by myself, and I would be just as happy. some of your answers are pretty screwy. don't try 'the Secret', its just another smoke and mirror wishful thinking pile of dung, brought to you by the same people who shove 'Religion' down your throat. if you are trying meds and what not because you want to interact with people, then try calming excersise's instead. go to public places when they are less crowded. I go shopping at 3am because no ones there. thanks for the time,

Answer 8

I sure do understand isolation. I experienced so much hurt and got so tired of people betraying me that I withdrew for a long time from people too. Then one day I realized I didn't want to be alone anymore... I didn't want to grow old alone, so I asked The Lord to put good people in my life, and He did. Medication has its place, but don't rely on it to fix everything that's broken in your life.

Answer 9

Dont worry sweety,
Just talk your Doc and find another med. There are some meds out there that will work for oyu.
God Bless,
P.S. You hve to watch a movie called the secret.

Answer 10

I am a trained Psychiatrist.

I have 25 years of experience

Your writing seems erratic. From what I can tell you have Bipolar II and possibly the onset of Schizophrenia. You may also be suffering from ADD and OCD.
When I see Bipolar and Schizophrenia... I know it. I am an expert.

You need to be admitted to a mental hospital immediately.
Ask them to prescribe you Lithium, Effexor and Rispiridone.

You will likely stay for two months as your case sounds very severe. Be prepared for the nurses to tie you up in restraints. It is a very common thing in mental hospitals. Remember they are only trying to help you.

Once you are released from the hospital it is your responsibility to inform the DMV that you are on medication and you have Schizophrenia. They will have a hearing to asses wether you are a dangerous driver. Do not be surprised if they take away your drivers licence.

I hope that you get the help that you so desperately require.
It can take years to find the right balance of medication. Don't give up. Keep trying new medications until you find the right one.

The medications may make you feel like a zombie and they will probably make you gain forty to fifty pounds but that is a small price to pay.

http://www.cchr.org/index.cfm/8771