ok theres this woman about 24 who ive known for quite sometime, back when i was going through crap when iwas still withmy ex, she was even there for me alot when my ex wanted to be single but keep me hanging around at bay for when she wanted me, and i pulled the plug on that bs relationship and started pursueing this other, and she and i got really close and shared alot of time and energy together(if you know what i meen by energy) and one day we were talking about work and i said what i make in a week (i get paid weekly) and she became upset and kicked me out of her place. what should i do? im so filled with disgust and anoyance that i wanna try and talk to her to make her see the good in everything im doing. i mean come on im taking care of myself wich is something i didnt do 18to21 then it all hit me shorlty after turning 21, im 23 now and im sick of things like this every chick i get close to runs away or plays games with me and i allways get hurt. what should ido?
2007-03-14 09:55:23 · 7 answers · asked by doktor of the mynd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or do i just have a bad judge of character and go for the ones that try to be good on the outside but are really bad for anyone to get close? im just frustrated a little bit by relationshoips period, i think. sometimes i just wanna scream "wheres the good ones?"or "when will i meet a nice chick"
2007-03-14 09:57:24 · update #1
Hi
There is someone out there that will not run away and love everything about you . Sorry but this girl was just using you for her own selfish needs .
Why would you want to talk to her after she threw you out ? Yes , we all get hurt and I look at the bright side of things that it is all a learning process that prepares us for the real thing .
2007-03-14 10:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, a couple of things. First, you say ur 23. Did you go to school, and if not, do you plan to go? Most girls will give a guy who doesn't make a lot of money at the moment a chance if they see he is on his way to changing that situation for the future. If you're not willing to pursue a college education, maybe you could start your own business or something. In five years, you will be 28 or 29 and women that age DEFINITELY consider what a guy earns to be important because by that time, many women have finished school, started their careers, and are looking for someone to settle down and have kids with. And they usually want someone who makes at least as much as they make or more. That's just the way it is in our society. If you're not the ambitious type, well, then you may want to pursue different types of girls who don't care so much about your income. In any case, I wish you the best.
Good luck
2007-03-14 17:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Conqueror160 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What was her deal? Is she ticked off that you get paid weekly, or that you don't make enough money, or that you make good money (I think it's the former rather than the latter). Chances are she's trying to find a guy who makes bank.
Think of where you're meeting these chicks, and perhaps you need to find a new pier to fish from.
2007-03-14 17:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by sum gui 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly dude, anytime a girl treats u bad or diff vause of your income is a girl thats not worht the time. Do your own thing and things will fall into place.........if you meet a girl i say just lay things out right there n then and say what you can n cant afford. Saying things upfront will save u heartache later. I say become a player...the moment u do girls will wanna stick with you. Always have a few "backups"
2007-03-14 17:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by darealest323 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, just like most of us guys prefer to date women who are physically attractive-most women prefer to date men of financial means. Sometimes, however, if you are seeking a long-term relationship or marriage with an honest woman looking for the same, the difference can be made up for with high ambition and good plans for the future.
At any rate, my suggestion is to not give up, but just do what you have to do to find the type of woman you are looking for. It generally doesn't come easy for most of us. But then, anything worth having is worth putting in the effort for it.
2007-03-14 17:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will always be people out there that will date/marry people based on income. You don't need this type of person in your life. They will spend everything you have and ditch you for the first person with a bigger wallet.
2007-03-14 17:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by mslider2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, let the b***h go. Would you date someone knowing they were only after you for your money? Your money is obviously more important than the person you are. Do really want this kind of person in your life? She is no good, let her go!! You're better off! Trust me!
2007-03-14 17:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋