Whenever I have a crush on a guy, later it just goes away, and it never lasts. Is that a projection of how my life is supposed to be? Cause everytime I tell my friends, I just stop liking the guy. But then thieres this recent crush, and I decided not to tell no one about him, and he is flirting with me (smiling, staring, if that counts) and I am very shy, and I can't make a move, and he is too shy too, and I am desperate cause I cant talk to anyone about it!!! Help!!!
2007-03-14 09:47:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That - honey - is why they're called crushes....because they don't last.
2007-03-14 09:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you and no this doesn't mean anything for you later in life. Girls are suppose to be like you, but too many get carried away with the idea of having a boyfriend. Let nature take it's course and just have fun.
As for the boy, you really need to make a move. Don't worry he will be happy that you did. Boys are much more shy on average than girls at your age.
2007-03-14 16:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A crush is just a fleeting fancy, a flash of emotion, a moment
of attraction---a crush is NOT love. Yes, all crushes fade away
because reality begins to set in. You could have a crush on
every guy in the NFL, but might not date any of them. See the
point? Flirt with a "crush" and see if he responds to you.
Flirting leads to dating. Dating leads to romance. Romance
leads to marriage. But, a crush doesn't lead anywhere, and
that's because it's only an "instant attraction" to you. If this
doesn't quite answer your question, email me and I'll try to
explain it in greater detail, OK?
2007-03-14 17:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this is in school which I'm assuming it is go up and ask him something school related it sounds dorky but It's a good starter cause It's something you know about and you wouldn't have to fumble an answer because of being nervous. I did this in high school and it seemed to work for me pretty well.
Bryant~
2007-03-14 16:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by bscot012@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just do it.What have you got to lose.Im sure he would be flattered to have you make the first move.No you are not wierd because you quit liking them.You will find someone that the feeling gets stronger.Then you will know it is right
2007-03-14 16:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just gonna get bored anyway so move on to someone whose not shy.
2007-03-14 16:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. One of these days you will find the one that will not go away and then the nakedness will happen.
2007-03-14 16:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you guys has to make a move ASAP, otherwise it'll go away
2007-03-14 16:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-14 16:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by tuff luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋