I have been seeing this girl for about two years. She is very sexual and wants to take things to the next step. She wants to bring in another girl in our relationship. I would be really excited, but the girl she wants to bring in is her first cousin. She is very attractive, but she was left mentally retarded from a car accident 8 months ago. I feel like that we are taking advantage of her in her weak state. What should I do? My girlfriend has already had relations with her, and she says I'm missing out...
2007-03-14 09:42:15 · 24 answers · asked by Dr. Richard Fitzwell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, go for it. I can't believe your gf is doing her retarded cousin. This is definitely Springer material.
2007-03-14 09:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wow...that's one crazy tale.
First off, how far have you gone with your GF so far?
I would advise against jumping into a passionate relationship with two girls at once - esp since you don't know the other one to begin with.
If you don't feel comfortable, you MUST be assertive. If you take a middle ground she will pull you over. If you want to go for it, then you're already there.
In these matters, I tend to trust my gut; it's the instantaneous reaction based on all your experience and core beliefs, so it's usually right. You don't feel that this is the right thing to do, so don't do it. Take a chance to cool down until you know exactly what you want.
Best wishes ;)
2007-03-14 09:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by teh_popezorz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's really crazy from my perspective. I don't think you should be messing around with two girls, and the fact that your girlfriend wants you to have relations with her cousin tells you something. Also the fact that her cousin is retarded would mean that you and your girlfriend were taking advantage of the girl. That's basically rape if you were to take things that far.
2007-03-14 09:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rewind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all i would say that any girl thats messing around with any other person besides you is already a caution sign. Being a guy i know the joy you can have even thinking youre gonna be with 2 girls. I say this...if youre looking to just experience it then go for it but i say keep a look out on your girl cause if shes messing with her cousin who knows who else she might get with if not with her...just my thoughts
2007-03-14 09:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by darealest323 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one thing that just sounds weird for a girl to want her cousin in a relationship with the two of you it is really sick. In a relationship I really don't think that you should even think about bringing someone else in your bed besides you and your gf.
2007-03-14 09:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by april h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you would be taking advantage of your girlfriends cousin, and you know that on some level by asking the question in the first place.
2007-03-14 09:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Robert S. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP seeing this girl immediatly!!!! Your girlfriend is very sick and abused. You've also got to talk to an adult and let them know what is going on. I'm warning you that you will not be popular after you do this, but you will feel better about yourself as a person.
2007-03-14 09:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by trudi25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong on so many levels. You should get out of the relationship and find someone who isn't batsh*t crazy.
2007-03-14 09:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Vivita 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is sick. First off they are related and second you WOULD be taking advantage of her cousin!
2007-03-14 09:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by JEN P 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that is taking advantage! i think you should question what you see in this girl and whether she is moral enough to continue to be with.
2007-03-14 09:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by happylittlemom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋