My man has always seemed to like full figured women. Recently I let him know I don’t mind a bit if he watches porn. Now all of a sudden he’s taken to looking at clothed pix of women that are incredibly dull but very skinny instead. I know I’m beautiful and that other men think so as well. I’ve been on a diet (before this all happened) but now don’t feel like loosing weight anymore. I feel crappy about myself now and hurt because I do not wish to look like the kind of women he wants (blond hair/ green eyes/pasty white) yet I want to be his everything. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all but I don’t understand why he can not just check out hot women. Or why he would look at plain women (which I find very insulting) when he has a very attractive and attentive women already?
2007-03-14 09:41:26 · 1 answers · asked by draGON lilLY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your concern for his attention is way too much - tone it down a bit. You should realize that pleasing people is a dangerous way of getting attention. It's temporary plus failure rate is huge. Find another person - this dude is not into you and he seems to have some issues - he ain't all that and if you feel you are heavy - get into the habit of healthy eating - you'll look, feel and think beautifully. Hope you make out alright
2007-03-18 07:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by B N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋