This is very important, Can alotof people answer this. I really need a good answer this is very important tome

Question

Ok so this is where I am at right now. We are pretty good friends and we will see eachother again in Italy in the summer. She is 18 and I am 17. I first met her about 2 months ago and we got to be pretty good friends. We have alot in common and I really like her alot. I cannot stop thinking about her. She lives in England and was visiting here for a month. We always had alot of fun together and from my other questions people tell me she likes me too. I have never liked a girl like this before. I have always liked girls but I have never met anyone that is so much like me and I cant stop thinking about her. I am too stupid when it comes to things like this to do anything. In a way I dd realize she likes me so thats why I kept going over by her house and we would just talk, but we were never really alone and we would talk for hours and I just dont know what to do when it comes to things like this. When she left she hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek( was unexpected, but I really

dont know anything when it comes to these things) and she said see you in Italy. Its been a month since she left and I misss her so much. I really like her and cant wait to see her again. What do I do when I see her? What can I do? How do I act? I need to do something because after the summer I might not ever see her again. Please help me by giving some good answers because this is really important to me. Since I met her my life has changed. I feel like before I met her my life was nothing, but nowthere are so many things I want to do in life and all I can do is think about her. She makes me so happy and I think I love her. Its amazing at how I am able to talk with her. I am usually not able to look into peoples eyes or even keep a conversation going, but with her thats all gone and please dont say it is "infatuation" because its been 2 months since I met her and she is in england now and I still cant stop thinking about her.

Answer 1

Ignore all the people moaning about how long your question is. It sounds like you have something special going on, obviously we only know your side. Be careful not to put her wayyyyy up there on a pedistal though. Maybe you could write her a letter. Letters are so much nicer than emails. Tell her how you feel, how much you loved spending time together and would like to do it again sometime, just dont be too forceful. I wouldn't tell her that you thought you loved her though, not yet, see how it goes first. Good luck and have fun x

Answer 2

it's really hard to tell someone how to act, all you gotta do is be yourself. there's always a lot of what if's? anyway, may as well make a conscious effort to keep them at a minimum. consider that a moment is all you have, and you can take something out of it, it's best to do so, otherwise you'll end up wondering what would have happened if you had done something, anything other than nothing. regret is generally the result of the things we didn't do, and it's entirely possible for us to regret some of the things we did trying to overcome the regret that developed from the things we didn't do

there's this notion that the confession of emotional attachment ends relationships, and to that i say it's true, but it doesn't end any relationships that are intended to go the distance. if you like her, make sure she knows, don't just assume she does, i mean it's probably obvious anyway, but they do tend to like honesty, so be honest, be yourself, and you're insured success, whether it's with this particular girl or not is anybody's guess.

Answer 3

Tell her straight how you feel. You need to know where you stand.I think she must be quite fond of you, to see you again and perhaps she is too shy to say it first. What is the worst that could happen? She might want to be just a friend-Well at least that isn't bad because you can build on it but hopefully she will feel the same way as you. Life is too short, if you are really sure of how you feel, go for it and good luck!:)

Answer 4

Try to get at least one, preferably all, of the following: a phone number, a postal address, and an e-mail address. (But I guess you won't need both a postal addess and an e-mail address.) Naturally, this is so you can keep in touch.

Don't know what else to tell you, except people will have an easier time reading this and responding if you include only what's important. Just a thought, and it doesn't just apply here.

Answer 5

Sounds to me like you have had a holiday romance that will blow over. Shes probably in England know and its just a memory to her now. Unless shes emailing, phoning; writing I don't think think much can come out of a relationship with her unless she plans to move to Italy or vice versas. You might not ever see her again or you might be lucky and she comes back to see you. Why run to Italy when she can get the same over here

Answer 6

Just play it cool, man... the next time you see her, get her alone! Take her out to eat, take her to a movie, go on a walk... those kinds of sweet things...

Make sure you really like her and if she lets you take her on a few dates, when you are taking her home if the feeling is there, you will know... it will be time to kiss her.

From there, be honest with her, and be ready to change your life for her, if you really want her bad enough to type all that.

Good luck to you, man... love can be harsh. I've been as enamoured with a girl as you are right now, dated her for 4 years, and dumped. It can destroy you. But never act with fear, just be logical when you are not with her, and romantic when you are!

-JX

Answer 7

the best thing you can do when you see her is BE YOURSELF!! if she kissed you then she most likely likes you to! im sure if she likes you it is for your personality! this means the worst thing you can do is not be yourself because as a gurl i would have to sat that is the biggest turn off! so just be yourself and all should go well! i really hope things work out!

Answer 8

Why don't you send her something, like flowers, with a little note about how you are looking forward to seeing her in the summer. This will let her know you are thinking of her, and being in contact will help make things less awkward when you finally see her again.

Answer 9

You are in lovr go with the flow & next time keep it short! You are overthinking everything way too much! Calm down!

Answer 10

Why is it that the second I see a question that starts with 'ok' do I think the question will be total bollocks and hit the back button?