have family who are untrustworthy. I am realy sad & hurt over what they have done 2 me. When I lived with my married sis for 6 months I had major problems. She didn't appreciate everything I did for her & her kids. I was practically a servant. I cooked, cleaned, lend her large sum of money (which I never got back) & brought groceries.. She lied to my mom about me saying that I never did anything for her. She made up stuff about me getting drunk & sleeping with a man. Since I was hurt badly I confided in my aunt about what I went through. She swore she'd never tell anyone. But her kids knew practically everything. They told my sis that I've been badmouthing about my sis to their mom. When I told my aunt she said her kids wouldn't do such a thing. So I stoped talking to my aunt. She was upset that I don't talk 2 her anymore. Mom told me 2 start talking 2 her. So I did just 2 make peace. One of her daughter said she'd kill me with her bare hands. But she still defents her kids.
2007-03-14 09:33:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I am getting married soon & I don't want to ruin my wedding because of this. When I told my aunt that her kids lied about me she doesn't believe me. Even when I told her that her daughter wanted to kill me with her bare hands. My aunt said I was taking it out of contact. I have seen her daughter shop lift ones. My mom told me not to tell that to my aunt cause she might get a heart attack. She has lied about me to my sis several times but my aunt things they are all lies from my sis since my sis also lies. I never defended my self all this time. Now I get panic attacks & can't sleep or even eat. Mom said I should get better before my wedding otherwise people might make fun of me.
2007-03-14 09:39:05 · update #1
This is for Phd.P. Where did you get your license to practice physiatry? Maybe you went to Kinkos and got a fake certificate. I am suprized you are still practising physiatry. You must have misdiagnosed millions of people. Your licence should be revorked. Maybe you should be hospitalized in a mental ward.
2007-03-14 09:58:20 · update #2
If you are over 18 then make a change! Move somewhere far away from them. This is the easy way to deal with them. If money is a problem then join the military. I recommend the US Coast Guard, Navy, Air Force and Marines in that order. That will give you a chance to learn a profession that will allow you to remove yourself from the family to the point of never seeing them ever again if that is your choice. You then hold your destiny in your hands not your family.
2007-03-14 09:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I agree with you on the answer by the so called Dr. he is an idiot, not a Dr. just has nothing better to do!.
Anyway you need to tell your whole family to just CHILAX (chill&relax) Forget all the past crap it is over, get out of the she said he said stuff. Tell them all it's enough to leave you alone. For your panic attacks you are having and your family is causing them, go to the Dr. tell him whats up and hopefully he'll put you on a antidepressant & something like xanax or ativan to calm you down. I would have flipped on these people by now! Especially the one who threatened to kill you that's a terrosist theat she can go to jail, I would get married invite who you want there and get on with it. Remember
Chilax!!
2007-03-14 10:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a trained Psychiatrist. I have 25 years of experience
Your writing seems erratic. From what I can tell you have Bipolar II and possibly the onset of Schizophrenia. You may also be suffering from ADD and OCD.
When I see Bipolar and Schizophrenia... I know it. I am an expert.
You need to be admitted to a mental hospital immediately.
Ask them to prescribe you Lithium, Effexor and Rispiridone.
You will likely stay for two months as your case sounds very severe.
Once you are released from the hospital it is your responsibility to inform the DMV that you are on medication and you have Schizophrenia. They will have a hearing to asses wether you are a dangerous driver. Do not be surprised if they take away your drivers licence.
I hope that you get the help that you so desperately require.
It can take years to find the right balance of medication. Don't give up. Keep trying new medications until you find the right one.
The medications may make you feel like a zombie and they will probably make you gain forty to fifty pounds but that is a small price to pay.
http://www.cchr.org/index.cfm/8771
2007-03-14 09:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Sorry you had to go through all that. Unfortunately, if your family is at all like mine then you will learn it is like the x-files: TRUST NO ONE. There are no secrets in family, and nobody will ever understand you or appreciate you for who you are. You might want to move out, and find yourself a really good friend or someone who appreciates you cause you sound very honorable. GOod luck.!
2007-03-14 09:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone - I too have a very very toxic family, as I'm sure hundreds of folks do. My solution is to avoid them as much as possible and do what I want for myself and for those who have my back. Just concentrate on buiding your new family, trust no-one, take tons and tons of caution and try to relax and enjoy every good moment - remember it could be worse! Take walks if you can or exercise so that it can increase your happy hormones take over the stress hormones...........Keep your head up!!
2007-03-14 09:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by googlemaniac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
zoloft/ ask your doctor
2007-03-14 09:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by tire chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋