What does it mean when a guy calls u and IMs you sometimes and is really really nice to you in person but then sometimes ignores you and talks to other girls??? I really really like him and just when i think he doesnt like me he will then pay more attention to me... Like he will randomly be like u look really nice or somthing like that and the other day he told me that he hates being single.. To me that is a sure sign he likes me but sometimes he ignores me so i have no clue... I know i am not giving clear signals becuase i want him not to think i am desperate please help im so frustrated!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-14 09:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U just need to talk to him. I always feel bad when i don't know the feelings of the guy towards me. You just need to tell him what you feel, and then everything will be finished. it's alwaya like that. You just need to be brave, if u need to, be the first, make that step
2007-03-14 10:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by ALONE_GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me...cept we only talked on IM, but we'd talk until the wee hours of the morning and then when and since school started we haven't said a word to eachother even tho we still talk over the interent...i liked him for a while, but eventually i got over him becuz i realized that we were just friends...it sounds to me like he just wants to be friends with you...but that's just me.. :) good luck!
2007-03-14 19:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like that guy is trying to find a woman but hasn't figured out who is the perfect one for him. could be you; could be any of the other females he is talking to.
when he realizes who she is supposed to be, I'm certain that by then, it will be too late and then, he'll start that whole process all over again like the typical beffuddled, linear minded male that most males tend to be like.
2007-03-14 16:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to be ur friend is is just gettin around into getting to know ppl. U never know unless u ask
2007-03-14 16:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T U JUST ASK HIM HOW HE RELI FEELS, COZ THE MORE U KEEP WAITING THE LONGER IT TAKES 4 HIM 2 TELL U HOW HE RELI FEELS.PLUS IT SAVES U THE FUSS OF INTERPRETATING HIS BODY LANGUAGE ANYTIME HE TALKS OR COMPLIMENTS U
2007-03-14 16:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not for you ....hes just waitin for you to come to him cause hes got no balls.....you wait through it and find someone else to be attracted to...you (or him) will get hurt in the end if you proceed
2007-03-14 16:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a jerk who is toying with you to me.
2007-03-14 16:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by spiffyattb1950 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL MAYBE THAT'S HIS WAY OF CALLING YOUR ATTENTION, I THINK MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM MAYBE HE'S FEELING THE SAME WAY OVER YOU AND ISN'T SURE OF YOUR FEELINGS ETHER.
2007-03-14 16:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, nut he probably is only considering tht ur his friend. no more then tht...
:'(
2007-03-14 16:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by nevermind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋