It's so depressinig...only ugly guys ask me out. The guys I crush on never even notice me.
I mean, I feel I am pretty, and I am not a ***** or anything .I just dont get it.
2007-03-14 09:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys MARRY good girls... they don't date 'em.
2007-03-14 09:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, if you're too pretty, it will make guys more fearfull of a rejection if they ask you out. Okay, we feel, 'hey, she's gorgeous, I bet she'll say no, better look for somebody else'. It's not logical, but it happens.
Also, sometimes, as humans, when we have a crush on somebody, we act different because we don't know how to interact with her/him. Maybe you get nervous when you're close with a guy you have a crush on, and he misunderstands you and take your behavour as bitchy or lofty or something.
Good luck!
2007-03-14 09:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Roberto 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you think becuz you're nice & pretty that guys are going to fall at your feet? No way. Guys don't like good girls, anyways. They like the ones that throw themselves at them. & even if they did like good girls, it doesn't mean your chances are upped. My friend is gorgeous & she got her 1st bf when she was 18 yrs. old. She used to do a little modeling, not real big modeling or anything. But also, some guys might be intimidated by you. If you're pretty & smart, they don't even go there w/ you, becuz they're afraid of rejection. Most guys think women/girls don't know this, but WE DO. We know all of their games & we just pretend to not, so they can feel macho & manly...We win, i guess (lol). Don't worry about getting a bf. They're not all that great & when you get older, you'll be able to just go up to them & ask them if they wanna hang out sometime. That's the beauty of it & they'll come around as they get older. Most of them won't be sissys when they grow up. ♥
2007-03-14 09:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to look for different guys -- you crush on them because you can't have them or sometimes its not about appearances maybe they don't notice you because you don't let them -- talk to them -- stand out. If your "pretty" they'll notice it but not very pretty girls get cute guys too and because they have a sparkling personality, they joke more maybe, or they seem to have a lot in common or whatever else. Ugly guys hit on you cause they hit on everyone.
2007-03-14 09:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Okaydokay21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever think that the "ugly" guys feel they are handsome and you're turning them down. Just like your getting from the "crush" guys.
Be real with yourself, besides the "geeks" always always make the best partners because we are SOOOO appreciative of getting a woman.
2007-03-14 09:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Many guys are intimidated by pretty girls, trust me I know. They are afraid of rejection and they think that you are out of their lead. The ugly guys are use to hearing 'no' so it wouldn't matter if they asked you out and you said 'no' it doesn't hurt them.
2007-03-14 09:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by tha_best 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm perfect there with you. happens to me each and all the time. yet i've got started flirting plenty greater and putting myself accessible and that i've got faith like it rather is changing. there is not any longer something incorrect with you.
2016-10-02 03:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll go out with you. Email me and I'll send you a few pics. Nothing stupid or nasty, this is on the up and up. I fell the same way you do. Give it a shot. If you don't then you know why you can't get a decent date. You're not taking risks......kduble2@aol.com
2007-03-14 09:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by phucknshit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god the same thing with me. i mean i could of been a model thats how pretty i am and im really fun to hang out with and cant be mean if my life depends onit. i still havent found the anwser only ugly people ask me out. i feel your pain. people say im to pretty and it makes them nervouse but wouldnt a nerd be more nervouse than a hot foot ball player? if you find the anwser tell me
2007-03-14 09:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Grace W 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I once asked agirl like that and she hesitated ad said no i never did it again because i dont know if youre jus shi or rejecting me.
2007-03-14 09:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by cool dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be more info to answer that. Like a couple myspace surveys or something. Otherwise there is no clear cut answer
2007-03-14 09:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by in_TIM_idation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋