because he buts her a drink? Sometimes I just like to converse with women instead of a man at a bar or club.
2007-03-14 09:21:37 · 17 answers · asked by phucknshit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you are one out of a million, because most men do have it on there mind to get the lady in bed. Glad to see there is a gentleman around such as you.
2007-03-14 09:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women often make the mistake of looking at a man in a bar as a predator. If you'd like an opportunity to have a significant conversation with a woman, meet her in another venue. A class, the library, a supermarket, the laundromat. Women are everywhere.
Or, if you like clubs and bars,don't buy her a drink--do something else to break the ice.
Be creative.
2007-03-14 09:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by trudi25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May not have been the best idea to take her out to such an expensive and seemingly romantic date. Are you sharing a hotel room? Are you sleeping in the same bed? Is this your first time doing so? If so, you have two options: 1) You'll probably need to tell her that you're saving yourself for marriage. Be up front about it, skirting the subject will make it seem like you're lying. The truth is hardly embarrassing, and if she finds it weird or distasteful - than clearly she isn't right for you in the first place. OR 2) Do her. Either or.
2016-03-28 23:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, becuz usually, THEY DO. We've been around men long enough to know what their game is all about. Not all of them want to, but most of them do. Generally, men come to clubs for women. The next best thing is drinking, then dancing. But hey, if a man thinks he can pick up a woman that nite, he's going to be there. ♥
2007-03-14 09:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same reason a man can't believe that a women is just at a club with her friends to dance.
Every time a guy comes to me at a club and says he just wants to talk and i bring up my bf.. the run faster then a fat man seeing pie..
If you wanna make female friends then try another venue
2007-03-14 09:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the bar, it is customary for people to go there to "hook up"; therefore having a drink bought for her is an indicator that the man is interested in hooking up.
2007-03-14 09:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we follow what we know to be true 95% of the time....most men think well i just spent 5 bucks on her so i should get something in return. they think its okay because there are more than a fair share of women buying into that quid pro quo mentality...
2007-03-14 10:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by fllfigchk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most actions men perform give off that 'vibe'. Men tend to go too fast with relationships, and their crude comments tend to leave women thinking that all men want is sex.
2007-03-14 09:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't go to the bars because i am underage but i don't think all women that but some do. if you just wanna talk then i think you should make it clear thats all you want.
2007-03-14 09:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by cutething 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that. If a guy buys me a drink l would still not sleep with him!
Thats perverted.
2007-03-14 09:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by jackiebrawdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋