Ok, there's this guy. he and i like eachother alot! and well, on his cellphone, he has this other girl in our school as his wallpaper, he says he likes me, and he just put that on there to make her feel good. but he flirts around her, and hangs out with her all the time. i don't know if he is just saying that, or if it's true. please help.
2007-03-14 08:53:25 · 20 answers · asked by jesse's girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry - he definitely has a real thing for this other girl, and he's just trying not to let you know for some reason. Perhaps he wants both of you! I think he's a scrub.
2007-03-14 08:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Saint Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jess, personally I wouldn't waste too much time with this guy. I hope you are not really emotionally attched to this guy this soon. I'd keep him as a freind, but I would not play any games with him and I'd probably make that pretty darn clear too.You go ahead and have some fun and don't waste your time worrying about him. You get you some other guys you can be friends with also, and live your life and be happy, you are young and free so enjoy and don't let yourself get hurt by some boy that does not seem that serious sounding to me.
2007-03-14 09:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is playing you. I hate to say that. But why would he have this girl as his wallpaper and flirt with her constantly. I would not waste my time on him.. i know you really like him, but it sounds like he will hurt you in the long run. There are plenty of other guys out there who would treat you better.
Remember, you are better than that :)
2007-03-14 08:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what runs through guys heads. No girls thats for sure. The wallpaper who knows. I dont think that he should do that. He should'nt worry about the other girl. It's you who is the most important girl in his life right now. I would not believe him. Good Luck.
2007-03-14 09:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you both........talk to him or kiss him in front of the other girl if she gets angry and beats you up they are together and if she backs off then they are just good friends!!
Don't let guys lie to you......I am tired to hear guys resolve dating different women at the same time by telling them all that they love them when all they like is the sex!!!
Be a real man and tell the ladies that you are not about relationships and just sex and fun if they like that cool if they don't leave them alone because if you lead them to think and then find out eventually they will leave you and it is not worth unless you are a dumb assssssss!!
2007-03-14 09:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but this guy is just using you. He knows that you like him, but from what it sounds...he's a player, a user. He'll use you for whatever use he can get out of you and then move on to his next target, b/c thats what you are to him: a "Target." Move on; you can do SO much better!
2007-03-14 08:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Hey You! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you first have to understand one thing. All guys are natural born players. They will cheat on as many girls as they can because it gives them pride and self esteem. They just want to get in your pants. This kid I used to go to school with dated a girl and dumped her right after they slept together. And that was 8th grade!
2007-03-14 08:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's playing you. i would maybe ask around about him. try to figure out if he's had a record of playing girls or not. usually the guys who do that sort of thing, are somewhat known for it, if nothing turns up, then go for it. but be carful
2007-03-14 08:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to hit u n run...get way from him now while u can..put another guy on ur phone as wallpaper and say thats ur ex...his back in townn u guys might b gettin back together..cause if u dont now...u will regret..best of luck
2007-03-14 08:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him a few times and ask if he REALLY likes you....Or if he likes her more. If he hangs out with her more than with you than just get rid of him. Ooh a good idea is to ask her if she likes him!! If she says yes than tell her off!
2007-03-14 08:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by geekytrumpet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋