how do get over a girl u truely love and the said i love u like a best friend?

Question

me and this girl been friends for 2years and i true love her and every time i send her a love messges she tell me she love like a best friend and wonder becuz i cry myself to sleep and i think about her all the time

Answer 1

Hello Taylor,

You are putting this girl through a lot of pain. She likes you a lot as a best friend...why do you want to take that away from her? You can't make people feel the way you want them to feel. The way I see it is like this:

1. You can either insist and keep doing what you are doing and you will loose her as as friend.

2. Back off the romantic stuff and enjoy her as a best friend..and look for a romantic partner...

Answer 2

My best friend and I decided to try it once and it was very difficult. Let me tell you, IT changes everything about the friendship. .My advice to you is to step back and separate yourself from seeing your friend on a regular basis for a while and hang out with other when she has space she might come to see you in a different light. If not enjoy her as a friend and be glad you have such a good friend.

Answer 3

You're still young. Believe me, you will love others and they will love you. This will hurt for awhile. All great loves does. The only advice I can give you is that the hurt will lessen. If it wasn't meant to be, then you have to move on. Life's too short at your age to worry about the what ifs and what could have beens. Keep crying yourself to sleep and one day you will stop. That day will be the first day of the rest of your life. Good luck.

Answer 4

let her go man you cant help it that she not in love with you but stay friends maby in the future it will change but right now i would just leave her alone for now

Answer 5

Taylor, How old are you? I believe you believe you truly love her, but if she's not in love with you, just cool it and remember she's really not the "only fish in the sea!"