I met a guy last November we got along great and the only problem was his job and distance but he was relocating back to our town for his new job and said he would have more time to spend then....in the mean time I met a different guy who was just as nice and available and we started dating and the became exclusive. it didnt last long and I really wanted to keep in touch with the first guy problem is he started spending time with an ex and now he wants to see me but needs time to make his decision. Should I keep seeing him (we are not sexual yet) or back away and let him know that when he decides I 'll be waiting?
2007-03-14 08:00:23 · 5 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I should have emphasized that the reason I dated someone else is ecause I was asked to make a choice and one guy was available and the other was not the one that wasnt I liked the most but the effort fromhim wasnt there quite possibly because of the work he was doing so I made a decision and he understood he didnt like it but he understood, now that the other relationship did not work out and he is able to make time for us he now has a decision to make about his ex-girlfriend who he started spendning more time with after he moved back to our town....I really like this guy ....
2007-03-15 04:31:09 · update #1
Don't back away, if you do that and let him know you will be waiting he will think you are to available. So continue to see him but don't became sexually active at all or her will never become exclusive with you unless for some reason the other woman gives up.
Why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free.
2007-03-14 08:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanted the first guy so y u dated some1 else
how wud u feel when u learnt he did the same thing as u did
exactly HURT
try to know wats real filings honey i dnt thinku know wats love yet
2007-03-14 15:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him some time. Maybe he wants to return back with his ex or not. You won't really know until he tells you something.
2007-03-14 15:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by southpark392006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doy ou really want him? the only way to a winner in this is to play the game. you can't always play fair so you have to let him know that you want to be with him and let the games begin
2007-03-14 15:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by glue stick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should figure out what it is you want.He is with his ex and has you on hold.That should tell you to move on with your life.Find someone you like and stop worring about someone that has someone.
2007-03-14 15:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by junior1108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋