Do you know anything about how to become an escort?

Question

I am totally sure I am going to get a lot of negative answers and oppinions on this, but I am asking for serious reasons.
Right now I am pregnant and I have no family members who support me in any way. My boyfriend is abusive and I am going to leave him. I lost everything when I got in my car accident. The car is totalled. Lost my job cuz of it.
I have no money except the money I got back from the book value of my car.
I am considering after my baby is born to become a escort. They make good money and I can take care of my child w/o having to stay w/ my b/f, and I can get on my feet again.
Their is no way I will get an abortion or adopt my child out. I dont care if any of you say I should, because for me its not an option!!!
Do you know how to get into this business? I have no idea how I would start.
Im ready for the good answers and the ugly answers you all have to offer me.

Answer 1

If you are really serious get in touch with me through my profile info, it should let you e-mail me. My older sister has been doing it for 10 years and is very happy and makes a lot of money. I personally couldn't do it, but everyone is differant. Don't let people get down on you, it's your life and your choice. Anyway I could probably help you find an agency or at least give you some tips, good luck in whatever you decide, and be very careful as to whom you deal with.

Answer 2

There is a few safer ways to live of course. being an escort is not the safest of the choices, it is an act of desperation on your part, and I am sure you dont want to do this for a long time. Doing this while pregnant can be harmful to both you and the baby. My friend was into the business when she was atacked and forced to have sex and tied to a bed post such force could harm your baby. It messes with your psychi really bad. It causes people including yourself to hurt inside and out. The awful truth is the money is not always there like you hoped it would be. Sometimes you end up settling for far less then you wanted just to get out of a situation, its not worth risking your baby for.

But to answer your question yes, i know how to get into the business. Here in NC they are listed in the phone book, and independent newspaper ads. But please wait till the baby is born first. Also, try getting WIC or other assistance, sometimes, they will help with daycare, busfare, and jobsearch. Best of luck. stay safe.

Answer 3

I'm sorry you found yourself in this situation, every day must be a struggle for you. However, there are many other options you can seek instead of being an escort. Women in that business are abused more than in any other jobs. There are shelters available to help people in similar situations as yourself. At least you will find a place to sleep and people who can get you on your feet to look for a half decent job. Just because you are a woman, that doesn't mean you have to sell your body to make it through these tough times. You can clean houses for a decent amount of money....anything but sell yourself.
There are people in mosques, churches and synogogues with open arms to help you free of charge...until you find hope in this life and make sound decisions for you and your baby.

Good luck to you and may you never lose hope in having a better life.

Answer 4

i wouldnt raise my child in that environment. Escorts always see what money they can get in prostitution. Your clients are always gonna offer it. Its never enough money. even if you have a nice body or whatever you shouldnt. you can get a real job and find a man for you and your child. youll feel so many emotions that you didnt even know were out there once you start selling your body. When God shuts a door he really does open up a window. Bad things come in 3's. I am 22 married with 3 kids. w ehave a house 2 trucks and 2 dogs. I have been so lucky to find my soul mate early. but we have had our share of problems taht kept knocking us down. i never even thought of turning tricks or going in that route. There are other ways to get back up. its your choice ultimetly, but I wouldnt raise my child in that life style. It can be dangerous and when you see your angel and realize how in love with this baby you are you dont ever want to see them want or need for anything. what if something happens and you dont come home. if the baby is all you have than your all the baby has.

Answer 5

Here's an alternative to exploiting yourself and disrespecting your value as a woman. Go back to school get yourself a skill in health care like a medical assistant which takes a few months to complete, or a nursing assistant which takes only a couple months and you can work agency jobs make your own schedule and work when you want I can refer you to a good agency to work for just send me a message and I'll let you know what that place is. In time you can graduate to something higher like nursing or even being a massage therapist where you can make decent money to support yourself. Going to school will show your baby that mom is working hard through legit means not degrading herself. An escort is a high end prostitute, but many escorts do sexual favors on the side. The money is good, but it's not worth destroying your self worth as a woman. Please go to your nearest junior college and get signed up to a program. If you don't have a place to live contact a social service agency and they can make accomodations for you because you're pregnant and give you necessary resources to help you get back on track.

Don't prostitute yourself out there are ways to get back on your feet and if you don't and since you access the net to make your way here to Yahoo Answers use Google to locate a social service agency and a local community college to help get you into a career program and if you need to make some money go and get a certification as a nursing assistant it's not the most glamourous job, but you'll start to make some money right away and if you work agency that will leave you time to be with your baby. If your soon to be ex is abusive seek legal remedy through the courts to protect you and social service agencies have resources to help women of abuse to maintain their safety for themselves and their children born or unborn.

Answer 6

Im not going to give you mean answers at all because theres no way i would ever give up my baby either, Im simply going to ask you why not have your baby get on food stamps, WIC, and housing program and get your own place that will be paid for, and get a good job, something you can be proud of. Think about it this way, now that your going to be a mommy, lets say you have a girl, would you want her to sell herself out? Be proud of who you are, stand up to the man who lays his hands on you, walk away from the situation and make yourself a better person. Show people you can do it, show people you can be a wonderful mom AND support yourself. It is possible trust me ive been down that road. You dont want to start your life or your childs life on the wrong foot. Theres so many people and programs out there to help you. Why not take advantage of them. Not to mention its against the law, and if you are caught you might get your baby taken away. Very good chance of this happening. I wish you luck

Answer 7

Um.... k.... obvious responses aside, I think you'd have better luck posting this in another section. Most of us here are knowledged about butt rashes and temper tantrums, not what you're asking about.

If you used the blue-book money to buy another car, you could do a paper route in the early mornings, and the kid could sleep in the car while you worked... just a thought.

Answer 8

And you ask this question in the "Parenting" section??? Get a job closer to home. I'm not an advocate for people on public assistance, but this is a case where you need the help, until you get on your feet or get a college/trade school education. This is not the kind of life you want your child to start off in. Or is it?

Answer 9

DON'T do that. You will totally regret it. What state are you in? How old are you? When is your baby due? If you can add that to this post I will try to help you but you have to give me some basic information. Feel free to email me. Hang in there.

Answer 10

Ok escort is basically the same as a prostiute. You need to marry somebody who can provide for you not go be a escort.