broke up with my bf 2 weeks ago
because everything was getting on top of us, making us unhappy, i cried, he didnt call that type of thing.
he said he loved me one day then next he doesnt
We ended it but we agreed to stay friends,
since then i have not contacted him,
i wanted to move on but i cant i love him.
He sent me txts, called me a few times and
we arranged to watch a dvd together but never did,
last night he called to say he doesnt have dvd but if im
free to meet up..so we did..
>
we gave each other warm hugs a few times
sat on a bench talking in the sunset, laughing.. i was cold he gave me his hoody to wear a couple of times,
his body language mirrored mine
he looked me in the eyes,
he said he wrote a song about me
i asked if he liked anyone and he said there are a few girls friends but he doesnt know if it would be bit of fun or relationship then he said he really misses alot of things.
and as we hugged i looked up we almost kissed.
He looked back as we walked away :(
2007-03-14 07:58:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want to ask him if he does have feeling for me and if so i want us back if not then i cant do this friends thing.. but how can i just call him/see him tell him this.. i know it would kill me not seeing him at all! in my heart it just feels like were meant to be ..
2007-03-14 08:11:34 · update #1
Give it time that's all you really can do. But to be honest I read the other stuff you wrote on the other persons question "How can I make someone love me agen" And I don't wanna sound like everyone of your friends but....
Even if he dose ask you out agen then don't do it he needs to know that love only goes so far...
If you take him back now he Will take you for granted and nothing will ever get fixed, you'll just keep going the same road you are going right now.....
And if it's already making you unhappy why keep herting your self?
Girl I went thought the same thing with my X and bye the sounds of it they are kinda the same. But for me I had to let him go, I still want him everyday too... He told me that he didn't love me anymore when we broke up 4 good and we use to fight all the time. But it came down to a point where I just shut my heart up and listened to the pain I was feeling and even thought I think about him so much and wanna be with him agen and wanna know if he feels the same I'm not going to put my self thought it...........
You should let time happen and just relax move on if everything is just braking your heart then just let go! Or else it will just kill you inside.
Just Waite a while, there is always hope you know maybe in 3 years or 1 or 4 you guys will be together you never know..........
2007-03-14 08:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been two weeks, so it's completely normal to still feel attached. You may want to think about stopping all contact for awhile until you can to a comfortable place with yourself emotionally.
As far as him wanting you back- it doesn't sound like it. When you asked him if he liked anyone, and he said there are a few girls... I think this would be a sign. If he was trying to get you back, he wouldn't have said this.
Maybe you two will be able to work things out down the road, but for now, you need some time/space to get yourself back together and to focus on you, so that you can figure out what you really want.
Good Luck.
2007-03-14 08:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are both young (under 25) Sounds like neither of you really wants it over, but something is in the way. Do this: stay friends, and go with the flow. Wait about a month or so; if things are still going this way, mention it, talk about it. Can't hurt. Just don't do it too soon, that'll ruin everything. There is no hurry here, if it's real, it will survive this, if not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off & carry on. It feels like the end of the world, but it truly isn't!
2007-03-14 08:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said his body language mirrored yours, which means he feels the same way. You said you cant love him. Plus he said there are other girls. If he really loved you and he knew you were the one there wouldn't be anyone else. I advise, is to move on and find the "soul mate" that's out there for you. Plus, the fact that he didn't get the DVD means that he doesn't want to put forth the effort. Good Luck
2007-03-14 08:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by rchmanc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to stay friends after you break-up. I mean if you could stay friends and get along, you would have never broken up, right? Most of the guys I have broken up with and stayed friends with just became a friend with benefits to me. And if you want to move on, you will never be able to do it continuing to see him and getting hope everytime he decides he wants to watch a movie with you. I dont know the situation, but dont let anybody keep you around for a backup plan or a last resort. You deseve someone who wants you just as much as you want them. It is 50/50 , not 80/20. Just be truthful to yourself, you are the only one who truely knows....
2007-03-14 08:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a dork...Duh easy answer...Leave him..You really dont have to be friends unless you really want to..But it would be easier not too..Unless you were married there is no actuall obligation to your past relationship..Plus if he isnt sure and ready to commit considering he's got a few girls on the line, he wouldn't be ready to consider you again..So why consider him...It doesn't matter what connection you have...Most people really dont get the concept that most likely you are young..and if you are cute, you WILL get another chance, antoher person in life...I've gone out with many woman..All kinds literally, and each one is a different story...Just don't get tangeld in one spot yo'..shiiit
2007-03-14 08:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by xxhonest2faultxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this man/guy really don't know if he wants a one to one relationship or he was missing you and decided to meet up with you or he just feels sorry for you and don't want to hurt you.And him giving you his hooded to were because you where cold don't mean anything. He was just being a nice guy. He probably wouldn't of done that for anybody, like a girl. He might just want you for sex too, have you thought about that. And this one day he loves you and one day he don't. If a man really wants to be with that women he would.I think you should read ten stupid things women due to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger. It's easy reading and right to the point. I think it will help you.
2007-03-14 08:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got faith like that allll the time. It sucks. i'm sorry you experience that way. I have been given a job as an assistant at a new child day care.. and that i'm with infants all day long and that i'm no longer so depressed and lonely anymore. they have all grow to be related to me and that's this type of competent feeling strolling in to the school room each and every day and all of them working as much as me and calling my call. Thats the only way I overcame my problems, maybe you may start putting out along with your siblings or cousins greater commonly so which you will strengthen greater of a dating along with your loved ones.
2016-10-02 03:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're over heels for this guy. I broke up with my ex a month ago. We were together 4 years. I don't hate her! I still think of her and have dreams about being protective over her. I have to learn to let go, since we argue all the time. I'm single again, and I'm dealing with it. Hope things goes well for you! Lotta luck.
2007-03-14 08:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by southpark392006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes just keeping you on the back burner to make sure theres not something better out there. He going to screw around with a bunch of girls because he knows he can call you if they dont work out. Don't let him do this to you, if he wants to be with you then he should be with you and he should not be looking for something better. Tell him what hes missing. hope this helps.
2007-03-14 08:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋