Recently I broke up with my boyfriend after 5 years.I'm pretty messed and I still love him.What can I do?
2007-03-14 07:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,the only thing you can do right now is focus on YOU and just hang out with your firends a lot,they will make you feel much better believe me..Try to accept that from now on he won't be in your life at least the way he was but you can always suggest him to just be friends if this is fine with you.Hope I helped,and always remember to look on the bright side of life.!.!.!.!.!.!.
2007-03-14 08:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over a breakup is different for everyone, depending on a number of things. You need to talk to someone (or 2 or 3 people) you know personally, who is smart and has been through a similar situation... tell them the details ... why you fell in love in the first place, why you stayed with him 5 years, why you split up, etc. - then take their advice. Nobody here is going to be able to give you any worth-while advice based on the information you provided.
2007-03-14 08:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with him? It's going to hurt for a long while and sometimes you think it's the end of the world because you miss him so much. Trust me these feelings eventually leave and you start to think why did I feel that way or about him. If you still love him try to set things straight. Just don't dwell on it whatever you do.
2007-03-14 08:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by padros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really hard. First you have to recognize that it's really over and that you will not get back together. (get through the denial) If you have no problem with that you're lucky.
You have to stay busy, get out with friends. Read, watch movies, take up a new hobby. You have to keep yourself busy. You probably won't want to. You probably want to wallow in grief but it won't help. Force yourself to stay active and busy. Allow yoursef time to feel the pain but not too much. Then cut it off. Push him out of your mind whenever he pops in.
Time is the only thing that really helps but all the other things help the time go by.
And remember...NO CONTACT...if possible cut off all contact.
2007-03-14 08:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and clear your self b/c you are starting a new life without him. Go out but do not commit to anyone or you may rebound. In time you will feel more comfortable and move on. Time heels all wounds. Try and do things that you always wanted to do.
2007-03-14 08:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how you broke up, if it wasnt for something horrible, try and get him back, if you cant, then you should just find somebody else, even if its just to talk to, it'll help you forget about your past for awhile. Regardless, I'm not gonna tell you to move on if you dont want to, because I hate hearing that.
2007-03-14 08:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by spiritofjosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard ive been there.u can start by not stayin at home.start going out an doin things u couldnt do when u were with him. go out with ur friends an enjoy urself. go shoppin.get a new look.anything as long as ur enjoyin urself an not thinking of him
2007-03-14 08:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by mztonyadetroit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick to getting over a man is to get another one. Leave it alone. If he wants to get back with you let him call you. I wouldn't call him.
2007-03-14 08:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: "Rebound Boyfriend".
2007-03-14 08:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Iron Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how u feel n say it like u mean it am sure he's waiting for u to do it honey
2007-03-14 08:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋