I was originally preparing to confess my love to her but I was too scared to do so - until one day when i had already written a secret love letter for her and it flew to her desk because the stupid wind was blowing and she saw it. I was really glad she didn't mind it and we became good friends - although i still loved her. I tried to protect her everyday as much as I could do and i decided to keep my love for her inside my heart forever.
However I never expected the worst day to come - she was involved in an accident and suffered a concussion - it left a blood clot in her brain which had to be removed as soon as possible or she'll die. Before she was pushed into the surgery room,she asked me "Can you tell me that you love me...for the first and the last time?" "I love you. Promise me you'll get well." and I never saw her since then....
I regret never confessing my love to her..what should I do to get over her death?
2007-03-14 07:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if this is true, im sorry, but it really sounds like a soap opera
2007-03-14 07:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by amazing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, I am so, so sorry to hear that. You know alot of people out her lose out on expressing their love to someone because their shy or just worried about the response. This girl must have really known that you loved her already with what she said to you before surgery, that is so sad I feel really sad for you and I wish you would have told her sooner but I'm sure you wish that to.
I'm not sure how to help you get through that, the worst sometimes happens to the best of us.
Just try and be strong and don't beat yourself up about not telling her sooner. I'm sure she is with you everyday that goes by and that she wouldn't want you to be unhappy so try to put on a smile for her and pick yourself back up again.
You take care.
2007-03-14 08:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
First off I am sorry for your loss . The only thing that will help you get over her death , is time . TRue love never dies and it sounds like you loved her with all of your heart .
Take care and Good luck
C
2007-03-14 07:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i am sooooooooooooooo sorry for you. there is no real way to get over losing somebody you love of care about. you will feel this for the rest of your life. but you said that you all were friends. so think about the good times and not what could have been
2007-03-14 07:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lesson learned here?
Love is not something to be contained.
You never know what will happen the next day.....
P.S.
If your story wasn't B.S. then, I am truly sorry for your loss.
2007-03-14 08:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from "The Young and the Restless" , isn't it?
2007-03-14 07:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋