My husband is a divorcee, having 21yrs daughter. Daughter is staying with her mother in a different city. Am sure that my husband does not love his previous wife any more because she is characterless.
For me, my husband is my first love and so I'm married to him. I come from a cultured, respectable family. I'll complete four years of my married life on 18th May, 2007. Having no monetary problem even now but am unable to understand why he neglects me. All other relatives & friends love me very much. Why is it so?
2007-03-14 07:17:35 · 14 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The only person who can answer that is your husband. Have you suggested couples counseling or marriage counseling? Also perhaps you should consider the fact that he may be suffering from depression (which is extremely common and easily treatable). Depressed people don't take an active role in life and you may mistake his lack of interest in you in this way. You need to really talk to your husband and find out what he's feeling and thinking. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-14 07:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there's a big difference between the excitement of the chase and the languor of the kill. Perhaps try to shake things up a bit for him. Go out with your girlfriends some evenings & have a great time. Don't dedicate yourself to catering for his every need (sounds like you do that already). How's life in the bedroom? Maybe you can get an interesting toy to try out some time.
My father's biggest advice (and I believe the best that I received) was that a man loves Betty Crocker in the kitchen and a wh*** in the bedroom. Maybe go to an office function with him, but don't wear any underwear. You can be prim and proper, and still cause enough excitement and interest within him that his only thought is to hurry home after work.
Marriage is not a course in cohabitation, it's a course in imagination.
2007-03-14 07:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by worldtraveller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been married but I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 yrs and he used to be like you husband. But that was because I would do everything for him. Sometimes you cant give them everything, they take advantage of that. So i stoped showing him attention. Sometimes you have to be tough in the marriage. After a little while he started paying me more and more attention. If that doesnt work just sit down and speak to him and tell him the way that you feel. Your his wife and he has too show you physical and emotional love no matter what. tell him in a strong womenly way. You cant be sweet all the time.
2007-03-14 07:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Arlene V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are just more loving (outward behavior) than others - but it doesn't mean those who are less demonstrative love less and vice-versa. In what way exactly do you feel neglected? Not enough dining out? Not enough verbal reinforcements? Not enough cuddling? Yes, these are all manifestations of love but oftentimes, love is more than that what we can see --- it's a state of mind (so difficult to quantify).
If it's any comfort to you, most women are in the same boat - we all want to be romanced; sadly, some men just don't know how. BUT love us they do - they just have a funny way of showing it (or not showing it).
Would talking with him help?
SMILE!
2007-03-14 07:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 00:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by camargo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is under stress. he does not want you to be unhappy so he does not know how to show you are tell you tell him what you need not demand it but ask in a way that you are not asking you know when you wanted somethings when you were a little girl how did you get your parents attention to buy you the cell phone are hold the car.
2007-03-14 07:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by lady bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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