I'm currently in a long distance relationship. My bf wont really talk to me, we talk but he wont open up like he use to. I know the distance is hard but I don't get it, we use to talk all the time like best friend, I affraid he is depressed. The majority of the time we've been together we lived in the same city. When we met he was living here because of a job we were together for 20 months before he was laid off, after that he chose to move back. (at that time we weren't in the same place in our lives) We were apart for 16 months but we would e-mail in October of 2006 I went to see him, we desided that there was still something there, so we are doing the long distance thing. He got himself in some trouble so he cant move until January of 2008, I'm about 80% sure he will move back, but there is still 20% of doubt. I cant seem to figure out wat is going on. help please, really answers no jerks. Thanks in advance!
2007-03-14 07:12:54 · 12 answers · asked by mace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey chill relax
don worry its jus dat long distance relationships is really really diff. But if u love each other really it wil work. Give him some time. I dont mean stop talkin 2him, talk2him but dont demand stuff dont let him feel dat ur feeling dat something is missing out jus b normal and always b der 4him. Lov is more imp dan anythin else even money and job. Go visit him someday. Spend a good time wit him and smartly him get him back.
Remember haste is waste.and time is the best healer.
god bless
2007-03-14 07:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rohan Kapadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you really need to have a serious talk with your bf and see where you stand in his life and where is the relationship is heading. If you and him are serious about eachother the distance should not matter. My sis has been with her boyfriend for almost 3 years and has been in the army for almost 2 she has not seen him for half a yr because he is in Iraq but they are still holding strong. I think that there is lack of communication between the both of you. good luck
2007-03-14 07:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what is the best for you, but I don't like that kind of relationship. Distance is not a good friend for love, but if it is the right thing it can be successful. You must decide!
2007-03-14 07:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by vdt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm. We lived 7 hours away and had a protracted distance dating for a twelve months. We then moved in mutually and married 6 months later. i'm unlikely to lie, the transition to being with one yet another daily replaced into difficult, yet loving one yet another made us artwork to remedy our issues. Now we are luckily married, get alongside large and are finding forward to spending continually mutually... interior the comparable abode. not greater long distance.
2016-10-02 02:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am livin on a long distance relationship and its working and am gettin married this november 2007 all u have is to talk and laugh a lot it surely helps try to avoid fight and arguments when u kan and trust is important here
2007-03-14 07:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DO NT KNOW WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND... BUT WHEN TWO PEOPLE LOVE EACH OTHER HE WONT BE LOOKING FOR OTHER PEOPLE... MY SISTER AND HER BOYFRIEND ARE IN THE A FAR RELATIONSHIP ALSO... SHE AND HE USED TO LIVE IN CHICAGO THEN MY PARENTS WANTED TO LIVE IN HOUSTON SO THEY MOVED AND IT HAS BEEN TWO YEARS AND IT IS STILL STRONG... HE COMES AND SHE GOES VISIT HIM... I ALWAYS TELL HER THAT IF HE REALLY LOVES HER HE WILL STILL BE WITH HER AND IF HE DOESN'T WELL HE WAS NOT WORTH IT... HOPE THAT I HELPED YOU LITTLE...
2007-03-14 07:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by sexy princess lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him and you honestly believe that he loves you I would try to make it work,but first I would pay him a suprise visit to see what is really going on. If things are cool just work with it. It is really diffucult to keep starting new relationships so if its a good one good luck to you.
2007-03-14 07:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to figure out what you want. Once you have that answer, you will have all the other answer(s). Trust me.
2007-03-14 07:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I yhink they usually don't work out, but on the other hand, some were succesful, hope that he's not cheating on you, becuase it's not like you get to see him around you everyday. Please be careful. kay and good luck with it.
2007-03-14 07:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm...... take a shot in the dark and wait.... .. but when he comes don't drown him in love right away...... start back where ya'll started and find why you love each other.
2007-03-14 07:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by mercswerve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋