i want to stay a virgin ?

Question

im 21 old girl and i have promised myself to stay a virgin till my marriage but the issue that im more like sex bomb i just pump with hormones and only a touch can turn me on, and here is another thing i find myself attracted to both genders. most of the people find me attractive and i dont know how guys know the beast inside me they read my mind and they give me a lot of invitations and lot of seducing till now im still holding myself together but im afraid to fall down into temptation .
what should i do to protect my virginity from my weakness?

Answer 1

Simple - a bit of self pleasure will take the edge off until you find the right guy and get married.

Answer 2

im 16 and i am also planning to stay a virgin till marriage. i would advice you to take temptation as challanges. Always think about the consequences. If u do it then u will probably feel horrible afterwards. THE GUILT!! If u want to resist temptation i suggest u masterbate.... I know its really hard but u will get rewarded at the end if u wait. u will find a guy that wants u for who u are. that will accept u. just like i found mine. dDO NOT GIVE IN!!! youve waited 4 so long why give in now??? just remember that temptation will always be there. u just gotta have some discipline n resist temptation.....

Answer 3

yeah well first of all, i think that it is a good idea that u chose to stay a virgin. and you will regret after u do have sex, so dont just think about now, think about the future. and if it makes u feel better, u should probably get a dildo. can't hurt, nothing to be ashamed of either. just think about it this way...do u really wanna lose ur virginity under circumstances like this?im sure u dont. you chose the right decision. it will only lead to regret, hurt and pain. and u can avoid that

Answer 4

well if you are attracted to both genders get yourself a girlfriend and enjoy your sexuality as long as you are not penetrated you can stay a virgin. being attracted to both genders and you being 21 saving yourself for marriage depends on how you fell and if you want to marry a male you might find that you prefer a female partner.

Answer 5

Pleasure yourself. Works for me. I'm 20 and still a virgin. I'm trying to hold out until marriage but maybe when I find the right guy I will give it up.

Good luck =)

Answer 6

find someone to stay loyal too and there lots of other things that u can do that isnt sex. But it is worth it so save it for that special person. Im a guy and i get lots of offers but i am choosing to wait.

Answer 7

congratulations for staying a virgin until now. since you have decided that you want to preserve yourself until marriage make every effort to HOLD IT IN. minimize any intimate contact with the opposite (or the same) sex if you think it will lure you to going to bed with that person. make it clear to whoever you are/will be with about your decision and hopefully he/she will be respectful of that and will not pressure you into dong something against your will.

Answer 8

after learning that you are a virgin all guys will try to "be the one' stick to your plan and wait if not til marriage then at least until you have a long meaningful relationship. there are other ways of release.

Answer 9

Masturbate if you have strong sexual desire. I think it's a good idea to stay virgin until marriage. Way to go girl!

Answer 10

find a spouse quick! just kidding! that's just part of it. i mean if you're going to hold yourself to that promise, you just have to face the consequences. if you feel that's what you want to do badly enough, you'll manage. or you could buy a toy!!! : )