I really like this girl that i work with, ive liked her since i started there in novemeber. Im really shy, thats why i havent been able to ask her our yet. I think im getting more comfortable around her now. I just dont know what i should say when i ask her? should i just ask her if she wants to go see a movie with me? or should i ask her if she wants to go out on a date sometime?
Thanks
David
2007-03-14 07:11:59 · 22 answers · asked by davidvbinder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, so heres the deal, we both work together at Burger king, were closers and we close the store together most nights. If im not working, im in class so i cant really ask her out to dinner. Its not even the fact that i dont think shell say yes, its just, ive never done this before, and i like the friendship we have, i dont want to put that at risk by asking her and her saying no. I think she knows i like her, because everyone else at work konws i like her. i just need to ask her. i think the next time i see her im gana do it.But i dont know if i should ask her early in the night, or wait till were walking to our cars to go home?
2007-03-14 07:55:49 · update #1
you shouldnt be that stressed / obsessed by going out / date her.
If you work with her , you should have some fun with her during work
after that dating comes in the picture.
good luck
2007-03-14 07:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the two of you striking up conversations? Do you generally have a good rapport with each other? What vibe do you get from her? If the two of you have already become friends and get along well, it wouldn't hurt to ask if maybe she'd like to go out to dinner sometime, or maybe even for a cup of coffee, etc.
If the two of you barely speak, I'd try and see if the two of you could hold a conversation first, otherwise, how would you know if she even liked you as a friend first, before going to that "next level?"
Either way, just be yourself and be confident, and you should be fine. Good luck! :o)
2007-03-14 14:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Deni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if if you two have the same break together ask her to go to lunch with you...find a cafe with coffee and lunchy things.... just say "Hey (females name) im going to (whereever) for lunch i was wondering if you'd like to come along for the company?"
if she says yes then say ok so walk away wait until ur break and go...
if she says no ask" Oh do you have plans"
if she said i have a boyfriend
tell her NO not a date just as a friendly thing (so you dont embarrass urself that would be bad).
if she said yes i have plans
ask her if another time is better.
If things dont work out then keep ur chin up...plenty of other fish in the sea.
another trick if you havnt talked to her yet and you dont know eachother.... Compliment her....and walk away and dont say a word after that...dont giggle dont smile just say... I like ur hair....Nice top....Nothing sexual just something you would say to ur friend.
I hope i helped Good Luck
Take Care
Robert Ziarno
2007-03-14 14:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rubba Bubba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say are u doing something saturday (or a different day) then dont let her answer then it seems like u are the nice and spontaneous dont say it in a do it or else say it in a your going out with me? she says:well um... (u say) great dinner 7 c ya there and turn around if she has a confused and amused look yur in and if a finally look she likes u a lot and if a wait i cant well a wait i cant responds cancel k . Good luck!
2007-03-14 14:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by sissie12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of just take a chance and ask her to have a coffee with you. Then if she says yes take her to a very nice place. Remember keep talking about her. Tell her she is beautiful. And that you like her very much. It’s great working with her. I mean just get close to her. And don’t be afraid asking her out.
2007-03-14 14:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that there is this great movie showing and ask her if u guys can check it out and maybe have dinner after. or even better ask her on a lunch date or when you are having coffee (thats if you drink) pour a cup for her and start a conversation
you can do it. dont be shy :).
she might even like you alot
2007-03-14 14:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by SD18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do friend things with her, once you build a good friendship, you can let her know you're interested in being more than friends. I got a fortune cookie once that said, "A relationship not built on friendship is like a mansion built upon sand."
2007-03-14 14:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how she acts towards you - e.g. when she sees you, does she smile? Do you say only brief 'hi' or talk more with each other? If so, start a conversation, and after a while, ask her if she likes movies/certain cuisine/etc. and then ask her out. Should work.
2007-03-14 14:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by scorpius_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it would be really cool if you said,
"Roses are red carnations are pink, I want to go out with you what do you think?" Huhuh what do yu think of that? Try it!! you seem like a nice guy, you should have no problem in getting a date, just ask her!!
2007-03-14 14:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come david be a man for a minute and ask her out
or u want to finish like seeing some1 else askin her then mayb u'll regret it for ur life
so go n tell her even if she says no atleast u tried
2007-03-14 14:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋