I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years - since I was 15. Recently, well about the past 6 months I have been wondering whether we do have a future together and whether I do actually love him as a lover or as a friend. I think the relationship may be more a habit and a feeling of security rather than love.
I feel that he has been my only bf and that there may be other guys out there with whom I could have a better relationship with but I am scared that I will regret it as we have been together so long. Also I am nervous as to whether I will meet anyone else! Please help - any advice appreciated!
2007-03-14 07:09:28 · 12 answers · asked by e1984w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should see other people. You let yourself get into a serious relationship too young for too long. You need to see what else is out there. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
You may not find mister right straight away. But it does take time. Just date and have fun! Then before you know it, the guy of your dreams will be right there.
Oh and when you are unsure about something, it's your intuition telling you you're not ready or it's time to leave.
2007-03-14 07:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts at this time, you will alway wonder "what if" if you stay with him. 15 is a really young age to be in a committed relationship for so long and there is so much more out there. You will miss out on the whole concept of being single in your 20's, which is so much fun! Besides, being afraid that you won't meet someone else is no reason to stay in a relationship. Bottom line you are too young to be in a relationship with the same person for the rest of your life. You should let go and proceed to experience your life, it it was meant to be, maybe you'll meet again later in life. But for now, don't let yourself be tied down! Meet other people, go out with your friends, have those wild "girls night out"s!
2007-03-14 07:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stick with him, what do u want more than someone who is staying there for 7 years now? and even if u love him as a friend u wont find a friend nor a lover like that ever he might be the right person for u and if he is not it must have appeared its been 7 years!!!!!!!!
ask for a vacation just dont talk to him for a week try ur life without him if its ok for u and u dont feel insecure and dont have bad feelings then brake up if not then just stick to it...good luck
2007-03-14 07:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by dimaabdin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a super long time, i say if things are not going great between you to, break it off, i was in kind of similar situation i was with my ex for 4 yrs and i have to say i did the best thing to break if off because i am finaly happy for the first time in my life. My ex was my first relationship so i say go for it and see what happens
2007-03-14 07:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some serious, soul searching to do, No easy answer for that one. Have you tried being apart for maybe a few weeks, and see how you feel when he is not around, That may help you with, knowing how you feel about him.
2007-03-14 07:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having these doubts then maybe you should split up with him. You don't want to stay with him, marry him and then five years from now regret that you never dated anyone else.
Good luck.
2007-03-14 07:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by april.may 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Sounds like you are unsure of your feelings for him so before taking up with someone new , I would sit down and talk to him about the way you are feeling and take it from there .
Good Luck
C
2007-03-14 07:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you should. If you have such little love for him that you are willing to ask a bunch of complete stangers their advice on what should happen to his heart than obviously he means nothing to you.
2007-03-14 07:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to pass to the chemist and ask concerning to the morning after pill. they must take her right into a private room or section and be waiting to offer her with techniques and help. the swifter she is going the extra appropriate. (Im assuming you're interior the united kingdom the place the morning after pill is loose)
2016-09-30 22:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not take sometime so you can figure out what you want.
2007-03-14 07:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋