iam decent.. virgin.. nvr had past relationship.. sometimes dull sometimes joyful, full of energy, in class always pointed by the teacher (saying i didnt finish up my hw), quite fit, average height (175cm - 69kg), can talk abt anything, socialable, a little shy towars girls, sometimes try to act cool when nobody talks to me -.-ll haha, sigh.. wat else? hmm, i am also kinda hard to get kinda guy.. its weird.. rejected some girls.. sigh.. and i am quite helpful, kind and sometimes i dunno how to put my words nicely tat i hurt ppl's feelings, sensitive, i dunno how to make ppl turn from sad to happy (its hard).. main problem is i dunno how to treat my gf.. !!
2007-03-14 07:07:25 · 12 answers · asked by WM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well from my point of view as a guy
You need to lighten up. If you can make a girl cry (in a good way and then laugh right after it your doing fine.
I have the same problem with speaking beforei think, but you know thats a hard habit to break when you know what you wanna say.
Maybe lose the hard to get routine, if your as shy as you say and luck with women isn't that great your not going places with that.
Next time you see a girl you "like" just act like she is your best friend, but stay away from the FRIEND ZONE. Evil place.....
Girls would like you alot more if you show them, forget the dull or the shy :P
2007-03-14 07:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by me_myself125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 45 and in a similar boat. First of all, if your of age no one will belief your virgin, so don't even mention this issue. The problem here tends to be a lack of social (dating) experience. We tend to be more practical and cautious. The problem is while we are still trying to figure out the dating game, others have not only mastered it, but are often manipulative. If, you are truly close or want to be explain to her your problem and do some role playing, so that she can demonstrate to you her needs and desires. Otherwise get counseling.
2007-03-14 07:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by lorianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a confused and interesting person. Maybe a bit rebellious. Maybe you should stop rejecting girls, because it's really degrading to get rejected after mustering enough courage to go up to a boy. You sound like an honest, down-to-earth kind of person, and girls will like that in a relationship. I think you'd be a cool person to be around and a good person to open up to, but maybe not ask advice from, since you seem a bit indecisive. =P Overall, I think you'd be a neat person to get to know. Just treat girls nicely and sincerely. Compliment them only if you mean it, but mostly just be yourself! They should like you for who you are. =)
2007-03-14 07:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the heart of a king (in a good way), and sound like such a nice, beautiful person.
You are a dream to any girl.
Be your normal self with your g/f.
2007-03-14 07:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh geez ladies are the form of people who will fall for almost all of us hahaha nicely kinda. I personaly like a confident guy. no longer cocky nevertheless. ladies like a gorgeous gy it extremely isn't afraid to communicate to her we dont like making the 1st circulate ha. you will possibly be able to desire to furnish her a large style of interest ladies like it once you spot her interior the hallway or some thing in case you adult men communicate then mess along with her hair as you walk via or some thing in case you spot her walk via you yell her call and supply her a hug or some thing those issues will instruct you have self assurance ya no? and only be casual around us hah yeahh
2016-10-18 09:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat your gf nicely like buy her stuff and give her what she whats if you can of course. Also you can say she is pretty or she looks nice or you can watch a movie together or something.
2007-03-14 07:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ventus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need A mentor, someone to show you how to be happy not be the ham you are all the time
2007-03-14 07:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by lenora h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your problem is you've been playing for the wrong team, you need a boyfriend to lay your pipes for you.
2007-03-14 07:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SPEND YOUR ENERGY ON YOUR HOMEWORK AND CLASSWORK. IT WILL HELP YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE AND THEN YOU MAY NOT NEED TO HURT OTHER FOLKS FEELINGS. YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT IS THE REASON YOU DO SO.
2007-03-14 07:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by Bettee62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long ur respect full, then ur a perfect dude oh yeah n if ur romantic.
2007-03-14 07:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by lsfrssn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋