Got a guy that I really like. Beside the fact that he tells me he does not want a serious relationship with any woman, he still dates just not me. We talk on the phone all the time, we have been very intimate which he swears is the bomb only 2 others could rock his world like that, but halted all physical contact with me months ago saying he wanted to be associates, but we laugh and play so much on the phone it is ridiculous! He says I play too much and he cant figure me out, but we enjoy each others company. He says he is trying to figure me out but we only talk on the phone. He says he loves me because Im funny. He is a producer and all he wants to do is listen to me and play and through ideas at me. He keeps asking me to be in is plays and writes scripts with me and my personal character in mind... I miss him, the other way. Very passionant he even accuses me of trying to steal his passion. Why cant I just shut him down and move on with my life. I want him to take me serious.
2007-03-14 07:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by tressroy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MK is right.. words can be used against you in the most loveliest terms. I bet he is alot of fun to hang around with but that's really about it. At least he was honest with you and told you he isn't looking for anything solid. When he told you that I don't know.
Plus why on earth would you think being compared with 2 others in bed is a compliment. I would be offended its an insult. Ghee I wonder how many others he says that too....
You are answering your own questions and don't even realize it. He is a gamer and your attracted to the play. You cant win this game no matter what you do.
He doesn't take your work serious either. There is no respect you're just another act he wants to use in his plays. After all the sex has stopped. So how is he dating you? I don't understand it.
2007-03-14 07:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I have been in a similar situation. Ignore him I know its hard . But let him believe that you have moved on. Don't let him know your feelings. Some guys play on that. If a guy tells you that he doesn't want a relationship leave him alone and most importantly don't have sex with them. Once you have sex that is the end of the chase in most cases.
2007-03-14 07:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just a player, that's how it sound from your note here. I don't want to judge people whom I don't know, but... it just sounded so obvious to me! I know it's really hard to turn your back on someone with whom you are really getting on, but it seems he's only going to decieve you and while you're offering everything you have best, he'll give you nothing back. Go on, take your life in your hands, change your phone number if you must, but please, don't loose your chance on finding another, better guy, who will deserve you.
Good luck.
2007-03-14 07:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by scorpius_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he says all of the right words to push your buttons. If you want a serious boyfriend and not a player you need to look elsewhere.
2007-03-14 07:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋