we have both totally changed. He works all day and doesnt come home until after nine, he doesnt take me out anymore, we dont have sex anymore...i didnt want him to move in in the first place...he kept hinting around...i said wed just end up being friends...weve only been dating since December...Ive been in a bad mood since hes moved in...hes very critical...i cant seem to do anything right...before we moved in together he used to leave little gifts in my house, take me out everyday, and say the sweetest things...now im lucky if he looks at me...i asked why...he said that i dont make an effort either...he said that ive been ignoring him too and acting different...he said he feels the same...ive not been working bc i just graduated from my masters and am looking for a job...he comments and says i just sit at home and wait for him, that is not true...ill be doing my phd in the fall...he has also applied for a job out of town after he found out ill be moving in august...does he hate me?
2007-03-14 07:01:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're a PhD candidate and you're letting this guy, who you've only been dating since December, push you around? Good luck on your boards.
Seriously, it sounds like when you ask him something, he answers, so he's not completely unresponsive. Maybe it's time to just have a nice sit-down and ask yourselves if this is what you both want. Otherwise, it sounds a little suspicious that he needed to move in with you after only a couple of months.
2007-03-14 07:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by pokecheckme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie the best thing to do is either have super serious conversation or leave him. It seems that things did not go so well after moving in, i think he expected something from you when you moved in together and he did not get that expectation which seems that he is not happy about. That is why you should really ask him what he expected from you.
2007-03-14 07:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the only one who really knows how he feels about you...we don't have a clue out here. Sounds like you made a mistake moving in together. Ask him to move out...tell him it just is not working out between the two of you with him living there and get on with your life.
be cool...
2007-03-14 07:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over, sweetie. Cut your losses and go your seperate ways. Who did what wrong is water under the bridge, just make sure he pays all the money he owes you and end it amicably.
2007-03-14 07:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it a day duck and move on, there are plenty more out there who would appreciate you.
2007-03-14 07:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by dover56dover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so, i think you both really love each other, just a tough phase right now, the lust phase must be over and it's just now a test of endurance
2007-03-14 07:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do something very very interesting! ... use your imagination. it's not too late.
2007-03-14 07:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋