my boyfriend keeps telling me im cheating on him, he's not talking to me right now because of it, but the thing is that im not seeing anybody but him what can i do to make him believe me?
2007-03-14 06:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by calisfinest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really can't nor should you have to do anything to make him believe you... i know it sounds like a cliche' but if you're relationship doesn't have trust, then you don't have much of a relationship... can you imagine going a year, two, three or even a life of constantly having to explain who you were talking to, where you've been, and where are you going?... be true to yourself and drop this guy quick... find a guy who isn't so insecure...
2007-03-14 06:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by ragefury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, normally guys are suspicious because they don't want anybody to go and try to take their girl. It is an instinct to protect what we suppose is ours, not in the possesive way, but in the sentimental area.
You wouldn't guess how sentimental guys can be, the thing is that sometimes we get stupid and say or do things in behalf of protection that we end up pushing away our loved one.
Be patient, somehow the guys are suspicious because they care...
Tell him that he has to trust that you are as faithfull to him as he is to you, that should do it. Your relationship must be based in respect, confidence and trust. Remember: even if you go out with your best girl, he will be like that.
2007-03-14 07:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by alestor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that guys are suspisious, it's that they have a hard time trusting girlfriends. When guys start falling for a girl,they put their walls up and seem like they don't trust you and they think you're up to something..and chances are that isn't want they are really thinking. They just don't want to tell you their feelings. Just sit him down and ask him what is really up, because you know that cheating is not the real issue.
2007-03-14 06:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Katelynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do or should have to do. If he has issues don't make them yours. Either he is the one cheating and looking to pick a fight or he is insecure. Either one only he can change. I would not waste my time defending myself, this is a waste of energy. I think you would know if you were cheating but if he knows better then you tell him lets look at what he is doing instead of putting the focus on you. I think he has something to hide. (he is not the first guy to pull this one)
2007-03-14 06:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't anything you can do to earn trust...if he doesn't trust you he may become controlling...The best advise I can give is communicate with him. Try to get to the bottom of why he thinks horrible things about you...what are you doing to make him think that way...usually girls with guy friends are harder to trust...I don't know your situation so I don't know...
also age has a lot to do with it...if he's young late teens early 20's he might be a little unsure of himself and projects that into his life...so he not only doesn't trust you he doesn't trust himself either...
Good luck!!
2007-03-14 06:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just understand that you guys arent only the ones whos been cheated on so we're a little on edge also, especially if we're interested. Trust me that means he really likes you.
2007-03-14 06:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make sure we have trust first, if you dont have trust you basically have nothing, if guys get this way, pay more attention to them, almost too much, and then they will back off, because i know im independant and ive been accused of it... so just focus on them for a while, and they will change there thinkin. good luck
If you don't mind answering MY latest question... please.
2007-03-14 06:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you give him reason to think your cheating on him? Maybe he's coming back at you saying you are cause in reality he's the one doing the cheating...
2007-03-14 06:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by 7S282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you say, he won't believe so tell him that you're screwing around on him and that you're sick of his crap and to hit the road and go be insecure some where else. Good luck girl!
2007-03-14 06:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee.. ur bf.. omgawd.. speechless.. if he dun believe u, then u can either scold him or dump him.. u go tell her girl..
2007-03-14 06:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋