if i meet a guy in a club and i like him and we swap numbers, how can i garentee a date with him?
im not into going back to his or taking a guy to mine unless i know him a bit better first.
ive been in a relationship for the past three years and now im single i would like to go on a date...
2007-03-14 06:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't - he'll either call or he won't.
2007-03-14 06:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than bribing him, threatening violence, holding his rabbit hostage, theres not much you can do to "guarantee" a date, lol!
Most men that you meet in clubs are not really looking for dates, most are out for one-night stands. Plus both of you are usually drunk which doesnt make for a great start.
They will call if they are interested, wont if their not, simple as that.
Trying meeting people through work/college/ friends etc instead of clubs.
2007-03-14 13:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you BOTH swapped numbers then why don't you call him and set up a date that doesn't involve taking him back to yours or going back to his. Dinner or drinks or something like that. That way you can get to know him better!
2007-03-14 13:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nightclubs aren't the best place to meet someone, alcohol makes judgement hazy and gives people dutch courage but in the cold light of day they may think better of calling, and thats nothing against you. x
2007-03-14 16:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't guarentee a date, but if it's meant to be it's meant to be.
Give it a few days, and if you don't hear from him give him a call and ask him if he fancies meeting up for a drink.
If he accepts meet him somwhere public and let somone know where you are going and arrange to call them to let them know you get home safe and sound.
If he turns you down, forget him and go out with your mates instead!!
Good luck
2007-03-14 13:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by p0nytales 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are very few guarantees in life and this is definitely one of them.
Even if you promised him sex on the first date, it is no guarantee that he will call.
You just need to be yourself and hopefully impress him and leave an impact and thoughts on his mind.
2007-03-14 13:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by shirju_rich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a club is a rubbish place to meet someone - they're meat markets and all after a quick sh#g
2007-03-17 16:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by MICHY06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys in clubs want one nighters,try somewhere else,you'll have more chance of seeing them again
2007-03-14 13:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't
be cool...
2007-03-14 13:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋