how do i get her to understand that i get uncomfortable when she does that?

Question

there is a girl that i like, she knows it. but every time im with her she calls another guy, mostly my friends.

Answer 1

you have to make your stand. in this case, i would most probably say that she is trying to get you to make a stand in what she is doing. to say that this is our time together and i want to spend it with you only.

either that, or she is trying to make you jealous and to work harder for her. OR, she is trying to tell you to make your move real quick or she gets to another guy, like your friend.

don't mis-understand, but the concept of such acts actually stem from immaturity and self consciousness. be wary that the same MAY happen to you as well and that she may continually do that to you until she knows that she has you completely. and after that, its in her hands to play how she likes to. and possibly, if she gets tired, she will do the same on another guy. i don't like to paint you a rosy picture but forgetting to add the footnote that the thorns below are extremely sharp. so, all im saying is, just tread carefully and wisely and pray that the ice is thick enough.

Answer 2

That is just rude and an obvious attempt to make you jealous... so tell her so in a nice way.. Just say ...when we are hanging out I give you my attention and would like yours in return ..(she will say what do you mean or something and you say)... you need to stop calling people when we are together unless it is really important ..it bothers me ................then see what happens if she continued that she has no respect for you and you need to excuse yourself a minute ..go around the corner ..call her cell and tell her I am gone for good and keep walking !!........

Answer 3

Well, maybe she likes one of your friends and not you. If you guys aren't dating then it's kind of weird that you would expect her not to call other people while she's with you. If I were her, that would actually creep me out that you wanted me all to yourself if we weren't dating.

Be up front with her. Tell her how you feel about her. If she doesn't feel the same, at least you can start moving on.

Answer 4

Your liking her is not reciprocated in any way, As a matter of fact what she does is rude, inconsiderate, and downright anti-social. So, what to do like about her aside from the fact that she may have a million dollar body? She seems to also have 2-cent brain.

Answer 5

Most likely she's doing to get a reaction out of you,but when you do react she's going to give you a problem,it's a lose lose situation!Girls are shady that way,and it's a shame.Try and keep her busy so she doesn't have time to call them.

Answer 6

She is playing you, trying to get you jealous and teaching you she is in charge. Is this really what you want in a girlfriend?

Move on there are plenty of breezes out there to choose from that won't treat you like a afterthought.

Answer 7

When she does it, take the phone out of her hand, tell the guy she called that, "Jane is busy right now, she'll call you back when she's free," hang up, and then silently hand the phone back to her.

Answer 8

Oh man, i used to be bad about this too (it is something a guy had to point out to me too), all you can do is tell her that it is making you uncomfortable, and that when its you and her that you would appriciate it if she would refrain

Answer 9

She might be doing it to see how long you'll stick around. Girls do weird things like that to test our boys out :]
but, just tell her to knock it off because it really bothers you.

Answer 10

the best thing to do is to be completly honest with her, tell her how you fell. If that doesn't work or help then maybe she's not everything you expected. Good Luck !