why do I even try?

Question

and when am I gonna learn?

... can anyone relate

Answer 1

guess u know what u want in life,so dont give up

Answer 2

Unfortunately yes. Asking these questions tells me that you might be living in shame or regret. We all do things we regret and sometimes we have to deal with the consequences.

It is time to look at the choices you make and also to review what it is that you are trying. Ever thought you are trying the wrong thing or going about it the wrong way?

What you need to learn is who you are and what God has designed you to be. Until then, you'll be searching for things that will not be there. When you make mistakes they might happen because you are trying to fill a void you haven't defined.

Don't get caught up in the mistakes you've made. Take ownership of guilt and work it out. However, don't shame yourself to the point of exasperation. Shame says that you are bad, not good enough, and that you cannot not meet some unrealistic expectation you have set for yourself (or which have been set for you). Instead, quit trying to be perfect. Quit trying to be someone you are not. Quit looking at others for comparision. Be the best you can be and remember that being good enough is OK.

You are carefully and wonderfully made. You are a person of value. You will learn and you probably know more than you care to admit. Life is about the journey. Don't let the carrot of happiness or the "next best thing" tell you that you have to do something to achieve happiness. You'll never get to the unrealistic expectation you might be setting for yoursef.

Answer 3

You try, because not trying is instant failiure. And you probably won't ever learn. If you did, you'd just lay there like an idiot for no purpose. What the hell is the point in that? I say go out, get some beers in, Get a little tipsy and then try again.
And yes, I can relate.

Answer 4

ur question is like sayin why am i alive, u get? d day a man {woman too} stopz tryin, dat day dperson startz dyin. dat aside, u're tryin becos d higher bein dat brought u into xistence has created u wit built in ability nd tendency 2 keep tryin, which is why u're even makin d effort to ask dis question. as to when u would learn, i'm afraid i will have 2 say neva, cos u neva stop learnin even while dyin, dat mite be when u discover sometin dat peepz thot dat ur knowin would hav affected d way u behaved 2 dem. so, u neva stop learning. as 2 if anyone can relate, men dat is d cry of 90% of d youthz worldwide. safe journeyin thru life nd discovery.

Answer 5

We should all be able to relate to you, despite the lack of specific details. My first thought is that this refers to love, in which case, I can definitely relate. We try because we feel the benefits of success outway the rejection we could suffer if we fail. You are learning, because by failing, it is how we learn best.

Answer 6

Yes I can relate. You are depressed. You have questions and no one has the logical answers that you want to hear. But we try because it's built into us to ask why, how what, when and where. If you can't find an answer in Science or God, or any belief system. Then honey, believe in YOURSELF. You are here for better or worse, why not enjoy the ride? It's a very short ride, live it to the brim.

Answer 7

~~~qpq,,,, Ignorance can be a dark deep hole. Free your mind and un-learn the BS you've been ForceFed by your culture and start reading what the Great Thinkers of History have had to say about The Meaning of Life,,,, and the folly of Religion,,,

Answer 8

You try because that's part of who you are. It's in your nature. When are you going to learn? Possibly never, but maybe you can have some fun trying.

Answer 9

Anyone who does not relate to your feeling is simply not paying attention.

Love never gives up.

Bless you.

Answer 10

Some days.

Answer 11

Why not!! Go develop a new source of power for all to use and feel like you have a purpose.