i feel like i'm not getting something from my man. we used to have a lot, the passion hasn't faded. that's the thing, i still love him completely. i feel like i'm not getting enough back from him. i cant put it into words exactly so i'm not sure how to approach my boyfriend with it. like if i say i love you, he'll just say i love you too after i do, or at the end of the night. he used to tell me he loved me because of this or that, he doesn't tell me now. sometimes when we are apart i call him back after we have hung up because i'm upset, i just want him to say 'it's ok honey' but he says 'i dont know what to say'.
we have a good sex life. we are good friends, but i am crazy for him and i feel like something is missing.
2007-03-14 06:07:58 · 6 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It actually sounds like he's maturing. A lot of that stuff goes away. Just because he doesn't have the need to tell you he loves you every few hours doesn't mean that he doesn't love you.
It also sounds like you force the issue, like calling him back and telling him things are ok and expecting vibrant conversation afterwards.
Understand that relationships change; they go through phases. The only way to make your relationship last is to recognize the changes. Don't make big things out of little things. If you do, those little things become big things for both of you.
Do you love him? Give him a break. Is this the worst thing in your life? Then you're VERY lucky.
2007-03-14 06:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
want some cheese to go with your wine?
give the guy a break if my girl was as needy as you she be sent down the road.
2007-03-14 14:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by fg812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him if his feelings have changed but you have to be prepared to what he has to tell you.And tell him how you feel.
2007-03-14 13:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by iluvsuperman84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ssigh!! i understand tat.. my gf do tat to me too.. she jus didnt answer like wat i expected sometimes.. but anyway.. i understand her coz she is still young and she have an important exam to face so she mus have her own problem..
for urs.. i think onli u can find out urself..
jus ask ur guy abt it.. screw him..
2007-03-14 13:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him talk to him if he loves u he;ll tell u wats rong
2007-03-14 13:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel u should dump him and find someone better!!!
2007-03-14 13:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by yesenia r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋