what is love to boys is it just sex or more then that .......whats the first thing boys look on a guirl.is it the buddy or her inside?
2007-03-14 05:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by Gu3r@ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the buddy (or body, I think you mean). After the initial attraction, we look for a nice personality and a sense of humor.
Love is something a little different to everyone.
2007-03-14 06:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, young people are usually clueless about love. It is a most difficult time for both of you with your poor brains awash in hormones. Unfortunately, sex is a powerful motiviator. It is nearly impossible for a healthy young man to first notice anything besides a females body.
Some guys are just hopeless. But there are a few who make an effort to see beyond the physical. That is about all you can expect until they are older. Look for guys that at least make an effort to get beyond sex.
Don't jump right to love. Learn how to be friends first.
2007-03-14 06:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what everyone else wants, but I know what I want. Sex is played out. Love is more then temporary and is based on a commitment to the person that is unconditional. Meaning it doesn't change, and it is not based on the conditions that everyone else bases what they call love on.
2007-03-14 06:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a guy, love and sex are two totally different things. if you want to know if a guy loves you, look at how he looks at ur eyes, or holds ur hand, or touches ur shoulder. those are our ways of showing affection. sex for most guys is just sex. we'll have sex with anyone........but, we wont show those telltale signs of affection with just anyone.
we want a girl to love us and respect us. sex is secondary if he really loves u.
we look for honesty, beauty (inside and out), loyalty, and of course looks in someone that we want to love.
otherwise, body and looks is the first thing we see....we cant help it-built that way.
2007-03-14 06:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by zeke58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love to us is love, just like that.
We know what love is.
We want from girls a companion through life, as well as you want from guys a companion through life.
Just don't put your eyes in empty people.
There are many intelligent and caring people in the world.
Get smart.
2007-03-14 06:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by SongMaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband told me one time that when a man loves a woman he loves her with all he can and if she is a shallow person with no feelings or personality that is where it will end, my husband is a manly man who is a fire fighter so i was a little shocked to hear that! Just be who you are and not fake, boys are stupid but they are not that stupid and if he really loves you you will know
2007-03-14 06:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Krystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like a girl that looks clean and neat. clothing doesn't have to be expensive, just well pressed and clean. i like a a girl that smells "pretty", not drenched in perfume, just enough perfume and make up to enhance, not cover up. i like a nice voice. i like an attractive, well built woman, doesn't have to be a beauty queen or built like model. i really dislike women who used excessive amounts of make or smell like they went swimming in perfume.
2007-03-14 06:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by ron m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a lot of guys is just sex, but there are some good men in the world believe or not.....a lot of guys notice a girls eyes first.
if you don't mind answering my latest question, much appreciated.
2007-03-14 06:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH GUYS TELL US HUH?!..HUH?!...HUH!
2007-03-14 06:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by A. RMZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋