What did he mean? (guys!)?

Question

Hi. Yesterday, I posted the following question about this guy http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?link=best&qid=20070313081300AAasMYf&r=w&pa=F5xxBXHpPmKSlmhy00sKliG7u5UqjdzHNN_mfLmFsFJ5YglclDnprw--&paid=choose_best yesterday evening, we watched a history video together in the media room of our library. He turned the video off and wanted to just talk because we never talk. Normal talk about our lives. Then, one of my friends, Eric, the guys' dorm RA came and stared the guy down. And the guy I'll call guy, was like are you the librarian? So, guy was telling me that eric just wants to protect me because he loves me and that "I'm a heartbreaker" ( in the past), and that eric thinks that " you like me" and therefore don't want to see you get your heart broken... and " I do have a girl-friend". I said, " yes, I know, you don't like me, you have a girl-friend, and I don't like you". and then I took a deep breathe, and he was like " are you o.k." and I "yes, I am fine!" w/ attitude.

So, what did he mean by all of that? Is he enterested in me? He said that he would like us to be friends instead of always fighting ( flirtatious, petty fighting). Could it be that he likes me? He did ask me if I liked Eric. We are on a small campus and eric likes my sister who goes to another college. Help!

Answer 1

Yea the reality of love isn't anything like the fantasy, huh? Ether way yea he might love you (i hate using "like", its so junior high). Shoot love is an interesting word because its really nothing more then the description of the intensity of feelings you feel for an object. There is not definite love. So with that said we love everyone and everything to certian degrees. Sometimes this conflicts with the classic idea that there is only one love for a person. So yea he could love you, weather that means he'll leave his girl for you (could be likly but love is something you sense thru wisdom and instinct) isn't something I could say for sure. But flow with it and try not to have any expectations of him or yourself and who knows what might come of it. College is one of the most dynamic times in your life!