What to do?!?

Question

I see my boyfriend everyweekend or so.
I'm really sick of going to the mall.
That is the only place we go...
Although he does like it [for some odd reason]
I asked him if he would like to go to a movie.
He said if i can get money from my parents...
So where or what are good date places to go???
I'm stuck. That don't cost too much Thanks.
Another question...
How do i get a guy attached to me? Wrapped around my finger? How do ya do it?

Answer 1

The cheap but practical:
local parks (picnic in the park, walk in the park, feed birds)
local play ground (be a kid again)
local beaches if applicable (go take a walk barefoot down by the shoreline, go fishing, go collect shells, have a picnic on the beach but bring towels and blankets to throw down)
a Scenic car ride
a walk down a local nature trail

The not so cheap but still practical:
Dinner and a movie
Dinner
Movie
A long car ride to one of your favorite locations

A guy falls for you if he is truly interested. Be there for him. Listen to his problems, talk to him, be honest with him, share things with him you'd share with noone else, trust him, massage him, make him his favorite meal. Just be a genuine friend. Usually that gets you the farthest

Answer 2

First off you need to decide if this is the guy for you. It doesnt sound like he wants to do the things you want to do. However, that being said, you dont need to spend a lot of money to have fun. Simple things like taking a hike thru the woods and bringing a camera. Kicking a soccer ball around in the back yard or at a park. Go on a photo shoot to a playground. Pick a night to stay home and play scrabble or monopoly or cranium. Games are a great thing to do as a couple. Rent movies together and make microwave popcorn. Go bowling. Rollerblade around your neighborhood. Simple things that make you both have fun. To get a guy attached, you need to be yourself. The right guy will be attached and wrapped around your finger, if he's not, then he's not the right guy for you. Always be yourself.

Answer 3

Hi Skye:

Thanks for answering my question. I'll return the favor. Going to the mall probably gets very old. You two should get active together. Maybe, you can play some tennis or racquetball. Do something constructive that will keep you both out of trouble. You two can always ride bikes on the bike trail. Also, you might go to the arcade and play a little bit of DANCE DANCE REVOLUTION. You can make fun of one another's dance moves. Also, do you have a teen community center in your area? Often times, you can meet other people and play ping pong, board games, and partake in other social activities. Please, don't do drugs or drink. I made some bad decisions during my teenage years and I am still paying for it in my adult years.

As far as getting him wrapped around your finger, you need to boost his confidence. Make him feel like a man. Tell him that he looks sexy when.......kiss him passionately......give him enough, but not too much attention. You do not want to be clingy. Just be sure of yourself and let him know that he rocks your world and you will have him wrapped around your finger! Sex is always a plus, but judging by your question, I don't know if you are old enough. Good luck with everything.

Answer 4

Lots of good suggeastions on the first part of your question already posted. Now for the second part. Boys and girls of all ages, listen up: Do you really want to know how to keep the person you are interested in interested in you? The secret is this: Never let them HAVE you. Sure you can share parts of yourself, physically and emotionally, but never lose your sense of self and get so caught up in trying to please and 'keep' them that you sell yourself out. Be independent, let them know you are with them because you want to be and not because you 'need' them. No mind games, just make it clear you want take mind games either.
If you make it clear that they can have all the wonder and beauty that makes you who you are as long as they show you the respect you deserve then only the real losers wil try to play up. At that point you need to walk away and not look back. To stay interesting you need to be as strong and independent as the people you are interested in. Or like being the doormat.
Now tell your cheap or lazy boyfriend that the best deal he is going to get is Dutch Treat. If he can't pay his half of the bill he can sit home or hang his empty pockets out at the mall by himself while you go out.

Answer 5

I'd say, if you like horseback riding, do that. Im not sure where you live, but im sure they have some horse ranches around. How about you two go on a picnic, go to a recreational center, or go skating, whether it be rollerblading, ice-skating or just plain roller skating. I also am not sure your age, or if you'd be interested in any of these things. How to get a guy attached to ya? umm,...i think that sort of thing just has to happen by itself, know what I mean? I guess just be as nice as possible , but don't put yourself out there as not being able to provide for yourself. Don't seem desperate is what im trying to say i guess. Good luck.

Answer 6

Well, if he says he has no money, then maybe he needs to get a job. I mean, unless you guys are young and still live off parents, then wherever you guys go will be solely up to them. Otherwise, go to some free places, like the park or go on a walk or look up online free events in your area. And when it comes to wrapping him around your finger, just be cool, calm, and collected and not clingy, haha. Good luck! :)

Answer 7

You're selling yourself too short. 1st of all - you have to pursuade a guy to do something different with you only if your parents pay for it?! That's b.s. Why can't he pay 1/2? And really, I'm thinking that he likes the mall cause there's other girls/distractions. Going to the movies with you would mean focussing his attention more on you and less on all the other eye candy at the mall.

Also, you don't want someone "attached" to you - girls usually get annoyed by cling-on's and overly nice guys.

Answer 8

First of all he should be paying for your dates not you. Secondly there must be a reason he is going to the mall so much. you should ask him and find out if there is a certain reason for it/maybe he's flirting with other girls. Just tell him im sick of going to the mall and if he doesnt agree with you leave him for someone who will take you to much nicer/romantic places then the mall

Answer 9

hmmm
well tell him that u want to go somewhere else for a change
i mean hes ur boyfriend, he should understand.
go out for pizza, or bowling, or the movies =)
and how come he cant pay for himself? guys are supposed to pay for the whole date sometimes.
a guy attached to you...do you already have one? well i usually, i mean dont give uself up, give it peice by peice. think of urself as some cake, and the boy is a kid. if u give the kid the whole cake, they'll eat it all up and walk away. but if u give them a small peice, theyll stick around and want more, catch the hint? =D

Answer 10

Inexpensive things to do....rollerblading, picnics, hiking, playing board games, if you have museums or art galleries alot of times they are free or cheap for students, you could also volunteer somewhere together

It sounds like your bf needs to get a job so he can take you out once in a while!

To get a guy attached to you, you have to be someone he feels he needs in his life...so be supportive, and considerate, and flexible, and low-maintenance